With 9 months to go we still have no best man or usher..I have been asking OH for months to pick but he keeps changing his mind and refusing to make a decision. At one point it was between two, whoever wasnt best man would be usher..now there are 2 more people in the frame and it is starting to bug me.
Should we not have finalised our wedding party by now? At this rate, Christmas will come and go and we will get to February with still no decision being made. I suppose at the end of the day he is the one going to look like an idiot standing up there on his own because he refuses to make a decision but still..
I wanted to get suits all picked out with 5-6 months to go but at this rate we will be struggling!
Should I be asking him to sort it or should I just leave him to it and risk not having any male members of the wedding party (apart from my dad)
Advice would be appreciated ?
