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Blonde Viki
Beginner July 2012

Bridal Shops - Wrong Information About Dresses

Blonde Viki, 13 November, 2010 at 20:32 Posted on Planning 0 16

I've just come back from my second dress hunt (no flashes I'm afraid, as no photos allowed again ☹️) and in truth, I'm a bit peeved.

After it happened at the first shop, I thought it was a genuine mistake, but this is twice in 2 different shops now so I wanted to get your views.

I tried on 5 dresses and liked 3 enough to ask for them to be written down. I'd explained to the lady that my mum lives 300 miles away so I wanted to email pictures to her before she makes the trip to London, so we can narrow it down to a few dresses for her visit.(Plus I want pictures for my scrapbook!)

On getting home this evening, I've run the information through the internet, and none of the information provided is correct. I've been given female names for the dresses which for two of the designers, don't match their naming system and for the third dress - the designer has a dress of this name, but it's nothing like the dress I tried on.

I've had a bit of a read and it seems like this is a fairly common practice - bridal shops give you their name/code for the dress not the designer's.

I understand that they want you to come back to them to buy your dress and not find it online then get a copy made but I take issue with the fact that, after me specifically asking for information to enable me to find a picture to send to my mum, they misled me.

I'm feeling a bit disillusioned. We can't take pictures at the fittings 'to protect the designers copyright' and we can't have the information about the dress basically to protect the bridal shop's revenue. It seems to be about everyone but the bride! The dresses are expensive and I wouldn't buy anything else at a similar cost without thinking about it and getting other people's opinions. I want to have pictures of the dresses to look at when I'm thinking about jewellery /flowers etc and I seriously cannot find the dresses I tried on today!

Finally (I promise!) the fact that for one dress, the name they gave me matched a different dress for that designer, well, that would make me have serious concerns about ordering my dress from there and being confident about getting the right thing.

What do you guys think? Have you experienced this? Have I just been unlucky at the first two places I've been?

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Latest activity by Blonde Viki, 15 November, 2010 at 18:47
  • *Nursey*
    Beginner May 2012
    *Nursey* ·
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    I've tried on dresses from 2 shops and found this in one of them. So I emailed them and they told me the proper numbers and I now have the pictures in my scrapbook

    HTH xx

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  • ruth23
    Beginner September 2011
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    All the shops I went to gave me the right names of the dresses I liked. Did they give you the right designer name though? You could go through their collections online to find the ones you liked?

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  • S
    Beginner June 2011
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    Yes! I couldn't find most of the dresses I took details away for - from 3 different shops. Even the dress I've bought i can't find online anywhere - thank god it's a sample so I could take pics of me in it when I bought and pop back to see it when I want. Sorry I haven't helped but wanted to share your frustration with you x

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  • *Nursey*
    Beginner May 2012
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    It's really hard to work it out from the online pics sometimes, especially if there's lots of dresses to sift through

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  • MrsMac2be
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    I dont know why they dont let you take pics as if you can find the dress on the web you can still have it copied so makes no difference to them surely if you take pics or not??

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    Beginner June 2011
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    I've been to a fair few shops over the last 4 saturday's, and the results I've had is varied - some give me the real name, some give me a false name, and some give me a false number.

    One shop I asked for them to wrtie down 3 of the dresses for me (2 different designers). When I looked at them on the Internet, one of the designers I had been given the real name, the other designer I had been given a name when it should have been a number! Don't know why this shop decided to change the number of one of the designers dresses (but not the others??) - maybe so all the dresses had names in their shop- I don't have a clue!

    A few shops I've been too, they've just given me a booklet with a reference number for their system (ie no names and no prices), which I think is even worse! Needless to say I've not got my dress from one of these shops!

    Even if I've been given duff (or no!) info I've always managed to find them on the designers website.

    I think you may have been unlucky at the first two shops but yes unfortunetly it is common practice

    xx

    ps my sister asked at a few shops and we were allowed to take photo's of me in my favourite one(s) so it just goes to show if you ask they may say yes!

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  • Blonde Viki
    Beginner July 2012
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    I'm sure the designer names are right, because I saw them stitched on to the dress lables or the hoops they use to hang them on the hangars. Unfortunately, like NurseBride said, one is a Mark Lesley and one is a La Sposa - both have over one hundred dresses and some are quite similar so I can't figure out which was the one I tried on!

    I'm going to try and email them to explain my concerns about ending up with the wrong dress and reiterate that my mum lives a long way away hence the need for pictures and see if I have any luck with getting better info. I just think I'd have been more pleased with the service and more inclined to spend my money with them if they just been honest and either given me the correct details or said 'this is our name for the dress'.

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  • TheNinjaPigeon
    Beginner January 2011
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    I had the same difficulty. So I ended up checking the tag on each dress and making my own notes. A couple of shops looked at me snotily but I didn't buy from them. In fact, the shop I ended up buying from gave me all the help they could to find the dress so I could keep looking at pics. I'd just check the label yourself.

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  • L
    Beginner August 2012
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    I found this in 3 out of 5 shops, and it was soooo frustrating so I feel your pain!

    One shop gave me their stock number, when it was a Pronovias and had a name so I had to look through their whole collection to find it!

    Another gave me a name, when Essense list by number so again had to hunt for it.

    And the other one swapped the names round for each designer, so right name but to the wrong dress! Also, they told me it was Ronald Joyce, when it was actually Victoria Jayne so that took an age to find as well.

    Don't really see the point in them making life so difficult, if you love a dress enough you'll hunt till you find it (as annoying as that is) so they might as well just give the right information in the first place. Can't really see how it benefits them in the long run but hey ho.

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  • DebbieD
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    A lot of shops do this because they don't want you to find the same dress somewhere else!

    In my experience as a wedding planner, the best shops will tell you the correct details and will also let you take photos because they provide such a good service they are sure you'll come back and buy from them.

    My favourite shop is Confetti Bridalwear in Tring where they let you take as many photos as you like and they couldn't be more helpful. (and no, I don't get any commission from them, i just like my brides to be treated well!)

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  • Blonde Viki
    Beginner July 2012
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    Thanks for this! I think I can get to Tring from London and it sounds like it would be worth the journey for the good service!

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  • Broody_wife
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    I only went to one shop, but I was a bit cheeky, while me and the woman were pulling me into the dresses, my mum wrote down all the codes for them. I'd maybe get whoever is with you to do the same??

    Luckily, I knew I wanted a Maggie Sottero dress, and once I'd tried it on I loved it. It was easy enough to find online later!!

    LxXx

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  • E
    Beginner August 2011
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    I think this may have happened to me but thought it was a genuine mistake until I read this! I tried on a dress by Benjamin Roberts, and at the time I really liked it so the lady in the shop wrote down the name of it - when I came to look on the Benjamin Roberts website to show my MOH who couldn't come to the shop with me, all the styles have numbers not names! Didn't think anything of it until I read this, and didn't look into it any further as I decided I didn't want that dress after all so it didn't really matter. Seems like it may be a common trick so like you say, so people can't get copies etc! Sneaky!

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  • bec84
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    Same....I had massive issues trying to find any pics of the ones I'd tried online.

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  • Blonde Viki
    Beginner July 2012
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    Maybe you did! But I wish a few more places were like the one you went to.

    I've emailled the place I went to, and I'll await their response. Hopefully they will be happy to provide me with the information, if not well, I know where I won't be buying my dress from!

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