I've just come back from my second dress hunt (no flashes I'm afraid, as no photos allowed again ☹️) and in truth, I'm a bit peeved.
After it happened at the first shop, I thought it was a genuine mistake, but this is twice in 2 different shops now so I wanted to get your views.
I tried on 5 dresses and liked 3 enough to ask for them to be written down. I'd explained to the lady that my mum lives 300 miles away so I wanted to email pictures to her before she makes the trip to London, so we can narrow it down to a few dresses for her visit.(Plus I want pictures for my scrapbook!)
On getting home this evening, I've run the information through the internet, and none of the information provided is correct. I've been given female names for the dresses which for two of the designers, don't match their naming system and for the third dress - the designer has a dress of this name, but it's nothing like the dress I tried on.
I've had a bit of a read and it seems like this is a fairly common practice - bridal shops give you their name/code for the dress not the designer's.
I understand that they want you to come back to them to buy your dress and not find it online then get a copy made but I take issue with the fact that, after me specifically asking for information to enable me to find a picture to send to my mum, they misled me.
I'm feeling a bit disillusioned. We can't take pictures at the fittings 'to protect the designers copyright' and we can't have the information about the dress basically to protect the bridal shop's revenue. It seems to be about everyone but the bride! The dresses are expensive and I wouldn't buy anything else at a similar cost without thinking about it and getting other people's opinions. I want to have pictures of the dresses to look at when I'm thinking about jewellery /flowers etc and I seriously cannot find the dresses I tried on today!
Finally (I promise!) the fact that for one dress, the name they gave me matched a different dress for that designer, well, that would make me have serious concerns about ordering my dress from there and being confident about getting the right thing.
What do you guys think? Have you experienced this? Have I just been unlucky at the first two places I've been?