Mine that is ?
can i just see what people think
walking around by themselves/playing on the street/crossing roads alone, sleepovers with people you dont know very well - at 9 (just turned)
i feel really uncomfortable about it - mr j says he was a free spirit at this age
my view is that if a disaster happens i cant fix it and there is a lot of time to be independent - 9 seems small to me
am i being a loon?