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LizBjk
Beginner May 2007

Don't really give a *** if iabu,

LizBjk, 4 July, 2009 at 20:13 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 4

My husband is a cock of the highest order. My nan was diagnosed with cancer a few weeks back. She's agonized all week weather to go in and have a full hysterectomy which the operation itself has some huge risks for her. I love my nan more than anyone. She's like my mother. And after losing my grampa 2 years ago I'm in bits.

I quit smoking on Thursday after 10 years of 20 a day. It's hard. But still haven't gave in.

My husband has decided he's hard done by and fucked off out for a drink with money we really haven't got to spend. WTF? I haven't seen him all week as it is and he pissed off out leaving me here stressed to hell, practically climbing the wall and in bits about my nan, with a 4 and 5 year old to look after.

I'm selfish apparently.

Wanker!

ETA - she's going into hospital tomorrow morning.

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Latest activity by LizBjk, 4 July, 2009 at 20:45
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    katybell ·
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    Liz,

    I'm sorry for all the crap you're going through at the moment, and I have to say your husband is the selfish twat.

    I gave up smoking 5 months ago after a 17yr 20-a-day habit and it is so hard. YOU ARE DOING BRILLIANTLY!!!!! Please keep it up (and then there will be a little more spondoolicks for YOU - not H)

    I'm really sorry about your Nan and hope she makes a speedy recovery (and hope the little ones go to bed easy for you tonight)

    xxx

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    Beginner February 2006
    Carrot ·
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    I'm so sorry to hear about your nan, and yes I'd be p1ssed off too.

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  • Flaming Nora
    Beginner May 2003
    Flaming Nora ·
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    You're not being unreasonable, he's being insensitive and unsuppportive at a time when you need him. I'm sorry your nan is so poorly, Can you pour yourself a glass of wine and chill out on here for a while? Would you relax having a bath or going for a walk?

    Hope all goes well for your nan tomorrow ?

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    Beginner July 2008
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    Are the LOs in bed yet? I second the bath/wine/Hitched suggestions (maybe not all at once!)

    Also: leave any a big pile of kiddy mess/cleaning/tidying for him to do in the morning ?

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  • LizBjk
    Beginner May 2007
    LizBjk ·
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    Can't go anywhere cause i have a 4 and 5 year old in ned. Tbh I'm that fucked off I hope he never comes back. I am absolutely fuming. His nan was ill last year and died, I was a huge support to not only him but his whole family. i couldn't have done any more. What do I get. Nothing. I've had enough of him. I'm done.

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