Don't Tell The Bride - Sept 11th

Did they show what shop the bridesmaids dresses where from?? x

I just couldn't be friends with that woman....she's everything I hate!

She had so many tantrums that we didn't get to see the choosing of the BM dresses, the suits, the flowers anything

I thought she acted hideously too, but despite my best efforts not to, I had a tear in my eye when they hugged in the car when he was trying to get her to calm down - I think it was more a sense of relief on his behalf!

The way she spoke to her father....outrageous!

Oh my god. That woman! Watching just now on bbc 3. Why on earth a woman working for a wedding magazine went on this show in the first place?! And sorry but if your issues are you don't want a taxi for your hen and you don't like your dress (because she wants a couture one) does she not actually realise she is getting married?! I thought that was the most important part. If I chose to go on this show then I'd accept what my H had chosen. She boulder be allowed to pick a dress if she doesn't like it. I it doesnt fit/is horrific then fair enough.

Rant over.

Oh and they were in the living rooms in Edinburgh. I love that place, one of the first places I went on a date with H it's brilliant, no idea why she was bitching!!

I haven't seen this...but I'm going to make sure I do when I get home!!

It was horrendous wasn't it! The thing that annoyed me was that she was so ungrateful - 3 weeks of planning and she was refusing to even get out the car and see what he'd done! And it was actually quite nice once you got past the festival bit! And also, they hadn't had to pay a penny for their wedding - even if I didn't like it I'd just keep my mouth shut anyway and go along with it! xxx

I could have put my fist through the TV and slapped her!!! So ungrateful but the bestman was tops!

I think they seem to forget that they are getting their wedding for FREE!!!!!

My point exactly!!! And if I worked for a wedding magazine (best job ever???) and had strong opinions about how I wanted my wedding, I would save up and do it myself like the rest of us have! xx

One word to describe this episode 'spoilt' what a childish person, seriously if you had no faith in your OH then why the hell would you go on a programme like this? it really makes me laugh when they said 'i would of never chose that' or 'this is not what i wanted' then why not like the rest of us save up and pay for the wedding you want instead of getting it for free :/ drives me mad!

Just watched this on replay, she was horrendous. Im suprised she has any friends acting like that or that he wanted to marry her in the 1st place.

Ive got to admit I didnt like the dress he chose, think I would have been dissapointed. The dress she chose after her massive strop was gorgeous though.

Even though I hated her I still cried... Im definately going to be an emotional wreck on my big day.

I haven't watched this yet, waiting to kick OH out so I can watch in peace, but the fact there are so many comments makes me excited!!

Just watched this on backup. What dreadful behaviour, and if it is all an act why would you make such a show of yourself. I wanted him to tell her to get back in the car and go.

Embarrasingly awful!! Unless it was all for show - you know, she works for a wedding magazine, so could it have been an act to make a good story? Cynical? Yup!

Ay... its pretty addictive viewing!!!

Matt- Surrey Wedding Photographers

@BBB.....not sure anyone would make themselves look that awful on purpose!!

I turned it off towards the end as I got a bit fed up of the strops she was throwing which didnt help her come off in the best of lights..

However I can understand how gutted she must have felt, I would have been furious if my wedding was in a field next to a festival but then again I wouldnt let my OH organise the wedding, nor would I want to be on a TV show. Then again, if I did I would hope he knew me well enough to organise a wedding suited to me although I think he would probably only get the venue right, everything else would be a minefield (the response I got when asking about postboxes, tealight holders and MDF letters was utter bewilderment)

Just watched it on catch up, effing hell. I was hoping he would just tell her to f*ck off!

I liked the best man's response to "I wouldn't have chosen this": "you did choose it, you chose to do this!" You don't have £70,000 pounds to spend on a wedding, so either have a wedding within your means or deal with having to do it this way!

That was AWFUL. ?

I was quite annoyed by the whole show this time, just made me think more and more that it is quite set up- that girl needs an oscar or a reality check...!

I had a friend that might have behaved like that once ... I cut her out of my life.

Most annoying, that it wasn't the worst - he didn't take her to vegus and leave her brother behind, he didn't ask her to wear a dress short at the front and long at the back - yet she reacted the worst I have seen.

and it wasn't like in the end she tolerated the wedding, she loved it that was the worst! How quickly she changed - I really hoped that was edited!

Wow, you guys are a bit harsh!

of course she is a diva, but it wouldn't be good tele if everything came up roses.

you can tell from the early scenes the producers have set up some of the chats to build up to her bigger strops, otherwise it would just be a blonde girl throwing a fit in a field which the majority of us would be on your wedding day

the selection process will be similar to 4 weddings where so many get whittled down from a big pot of brides who have applied to make the best viewing, it'll certainly get me tuning in again next week

I watched this last night - horrendous! everyone has said everything there is to say above.

But those that missed it - its on again tonight BBC 3 at 8pm ?

Caught up on this, what a bellend. The dress she chose was really beautiful, I didn't like the original.

And if you are seriously considering not getting married because you didn't like a few things your OH had chosen, you really shouldn't be getting married. Divorce within the year I reckon.

What I was most shocked about was the bargain the groom got!

"How much is the dress?"

"£1700"

"We'll give you £1000"

"Deal"

Is that a realistic discount to ask for in real life?

I always wonder if its set up from the beginning because i know if we applied for it i would be drilling into my OH what i wanted!

Did the groom really think she was going to enjoy a wedding in a field really?

I absolutely love her dress!!! Does anyone know of any designers that have dresses like that, i love the lace overlay on the top, stunning!!

No. A) he's on TV so great advertising and B) he said his wife to be works for a wedding magazine again great advertising. The women in the shop was so nice, she needs a medal for dealing with her!

Watching now..,. The only word is vile...... I know it's wrong but I was hoping, just a bit, that someone would throw something at her on stage?! I'm a bad person, but some people are such selfish, spoilt madams!

I'd like to have seen picking BMs dresses - bras on show and very short skirts.... Wouldn't be my pick (as a bride or a BM!)

And don't forget it was the sample out of the window and cash there and then! Think she was pushing her luck a bit asking for full RRP

I really wish the groom had just told her to do one, and the BMs and her poor dad - he was obviously mortified

Definitely agree with this comment ! Although I thought she was a real prima donna who has obviously been spoiled rotten- I have to say I may have shed a tear or two at dragging my lacy dress through a mud puddle. In the end they just got her piddled,which seemed to work !