Hi all,
Sorry if this has been done to death, I did a search but couldn't find anything! My fiancé is in Denmark at the moment both for a family party and to view reception venues and so we've been keeping in touch by MSN/Skype, which reminded me of when we first got together and how I sometimes can't believe we're getting married ? The proposal thread had some really lovely stories so I'm curious about how we all met our future husbands.
This is how I met my man. In January 2010, I booked a flight to the Philippines to chill out for two weeks, having had my heart broken in September 2009. I had no intention whatsover of any sort of romance - this was serious me time! Anyway, my second week I decided to spend in Manila and visit my family, who are about two hours away from there. I checked into a hostel in Santa Cruz and my now fiancé were in the same hostel. I actually thought he was a bit of a prick when I first met him; me and another girl had made dinner for the rest of the hostel guests and he didn't help me carry any beers up the stairs when it was clear I was struggling ? I thought he was hot but 'what a shame he's an idiot'. The next night we all went out to a karaoke bar and the two of us got talking. I was surprised at how easy it was to talk to him and how much I enjoyed his company, seeing as the day before I thought he was an idiot! Well, the night ended up with the two of us kissing. I was a bit freaked out as I didn't want any sort of romance but then I thought 'what the hell, I'm on holiday, won't hurt'. He was supposed to fly to Boracay the next day but said he wouldn't go to the airport and would instead stay in Manila with me. I didn't believe him and when I got up the next day I thought he would have gone to the airport (was surprised at how gutted I felt) but then he emerged from his dorm around 11am and said "I'm going for some brunch, if you want to come along". I tried to be cool and said "why not" but inside my heart was racing - as was his, I've since found out!
Anyway, we had an amazing five days together but we both knew that I was going back to England; he was continuing his travels of SE Asia but he wanted to give things a shot. I was a bit more resistant because I didn't want to get hurt again but I threw caution to the wind. So to cut a long story short, our relationship was long distance for one year, mainly between London and Copenhagen, and then we moved in together after a lot of talks. It wasn't always easy doing it long distance, particularly when he was exploring Central America tin pot towns where there wasn't great internet connection. Don't know how we would have done it without Skype, MSN and budget airlines! He popped the question on Friday 13th April this year and I don't think I've stopped smiling since it's sunk in that I'm going to be spending my life with this man. He's my best mate, I cannot wait for the next stage of our life to start ?
How about you?
xx