Ladies who have boudoired

I meant to give them to him on the morning of the wedding but caved and showed them to him the week before.

Sort of glad I did though because he got ready at his parents' house and everyone was wandering about and I wouldn't have liked my PIL to have accidentally seen them!!

I think the day/night before might be special too if you are seeing each other then.

Sorry but the 'it's traditional' to be given on the wedding morning comment made me laugh! I hardly think boudoir shoots have ever been traditional!

Personally, given the photos effort and meaning (and cost!) I would give them to him at some point during the week before, or even the wedding night/morning after.

The morning of the wedding may be very stressful, nervous and surrounded by his parents. The photos may get lost in the moment and not quite appreciated as much as they should. After much contemplating, I decided to do my boudoir shoot as a first wedding anniversary gift for the above reasons (and because he already has a heaving goodie box).

OH is getting ready at his mums and I am having it engraved with my married name and date so will have to hope we get some time between reception and evening do.

Otherwise it will be the day after.

He knows I have spent a load on his present as unfortunately had to explain why my credit card was maxed when I needed emergency cash. He doesn't know what it is though, so not sure what to divert him with on the morning!

Quick question, what is OH supposed to do with the pics? I want to get them done but not sure what would happen to them. what if they got lost. or stolen!?

This certainly won't be the case for my OH! He will roll out of bed, get showered and shaved then eventually get dressed. He might stress a little about his speech but that will be it.

I didn't do a boudoir shoot but if I did then I would leave them for him to open the morning of the wedding, isn't that the whole point of getting them done? As a wedding gift, just wouldn't be the same for me if it was given a week or few days before.

Don't cave Chids.