OT My nan died yesterday

Oh sweetie i am so sorry! my thoughts really are with you and your family! ?

I know how hard this must be for you after everything the two of you have been through together over the last few months, im really not sure what to say but im sure others will agree, we are all here for you, even if your not sure what to say or what to post!

Well done on sorting your uni application, she would be very proud of you im sure! I wouldnt worry too much about the wedding right this moment. You'll start to stress yourself. Just take things one step at a time.

xxx

Moonpig I really am genuinely so sorry to read this. I know how much you were hoping.

As moya said we are all here and take things one step at the time. I am sure the wedding is in hand enough for you to leave it for a while, gets lots of cuddles from your OH when he is back.

Thinking of you xx ?

So sorry to hear that hun.

Didn't want to read and run and can only offer hugs (((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

Take a few days just to concentrate on you before you start to think about anything else. One day at a time x

Omg you poor thing! *hug* i'm sure your nan would want you to be happy and get married this year. but i can understand where you're coming from. would your venue allow you to postpone it til next year? my thoughts are with you and your family. message me on fb if you want to talk xx

Oh no so sorry to hear your sad news, my thoughts are with you just take things one step at a time ae laurasj said xx

Oh I'm sorry to hear that. I agree with the others, leave the wedding planning alone for a little while and take some time for yourself x

Oh im so sorry to hear this, I don't really know what to say other than that im thinking of you and your family x

Oh Love, I am really sorry to hear this news. You will be in shock, even though she was ill I don't think you ever fully prepare yourself for the end.

You know your nan will want you to be happy, she wouldn't want you to be feeling sad on your wedding day and she will want you to be successful in your career. You just need a bit of time to get your head around things.

((( ))) xx

Oh moonpig so sorry to hear that.

there is nothing that can be said to make things any better for you its just gonna take a long time.

sending you a big hitched hug and thinking of you and your family x

Don't know what to say except I'm sorry for your loss. Everything is more difficult to cope with when you're alone, so I hope your OH comes home soon to comfort you.

Oh i'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you a big hug

Moonpig - i think i can only echo what everyone has said. She would be so proud of you on your wedding day and finishing uni.

Sending you good wishes

Sarah x

Thank you everyone. OH is out till 10 tonight, in a way I'd rather be on my own. If I don't talk about it, it's like it hasn't happened. I can't stand ppl fussing over me and asking if I'm ok all the time.

I tried to wak to the shop last night and fell flat on my face twice within 10 yards of my front door and just wanted to lie in the snow and cry. I'm thinking about ditching the whole church wedding and doing it all in the hotel. I have lost any faith I ever had.

Life sucks!

I'm really, really sorry Moomin. I remember how worried you were when she was in hospital the same time as my nan. Sending you lots of Hitched hugs, can't imagine how you must be feeling ?

As the others said, it's probably a good idea to leave the wedding planning alone for a while. Hope you are okay, or getting there, and remember you can talk to us if you need us ?

I'm so sorry to hear about your nan Moonpig. I know it's been pretty tough for you all recently. Lots of hugs coming your way.

Having been in a similar situation I guess, with my dad and my grandma last year, the best advice I can give is to do what your heart says. I'm sure the wedding plans will be fine if you leave them for a short while. Take some time to get your head together and remember that it's really important not to bottle your feelings up. At the moment everything is so raw.

Take care xx

So sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family x

Oh hunny i am so sorry to hear this!!!

Im so sorry moonpig that she had passed. she will be with you in spirit on your big day and she wouldn't want to see you so sad. lots of big hugs xx

So sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you and your family. Big, big hugs x

I'm so sorry to hear this MP, I know how much you wanted her there. December has some good advice.

Im really sorry to hear about your nan. My thoughts are with you and your family xxxxx

I'm really sorry for your loss, and so sorry that she won't be at your wedding. I'd say leave it all a few days and see how you feel - if you do want to pp/revert to a later date try and see if someone's willing to do the admin-y stuff for you.

Aw pet I'm so sorry to hear that. I know how much you wanted her to be here for your big day. As others have said, forget about the wedding just now - its not important at the moment. Spend the time with your family and OH and get yourself through the next few weeks.

Well done on your uni application - your nan is sitting proud of you just now and remember whenever you do go ahead and get married your nan will be there with you in spirit, if not in presence.

Huge hugs to you pet ?

I am so sorry to hear this. I know how you feel, my Dad passed away 3 years ago, and I miss him dearly. He's ment to be the one to walk me down aisle. I've decided my bouquet will be the West Ham colours in memory of him.

My Sister in Law's Nan passed away a week before her wedding, and couldn't bare doing it without her. They had a small table put next to the top table with a big picture of her nan, a special bouquet for her (which they later took to her grave) and it was like she was a part of the day.

I know its hard, but she'll be there, even in spirit... I do hope you have a wonderful day! x

So, sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you and your family. xxxxx

I can't really add anything to what everyone else has said but can only send you hitched hugs and say try not to think about the wedding for a wee while, you need to grieve.

So sorry to hear this. It's never easy losing someone but even harder at this particular time of year so close to Christmas and the New Year.

Oh Moonpig im sorry to hear this. It must be horrible for you, but I hope you find some peace that you were with her.

Please continue with your wedding as I'm sure she wouldnt want you not to go ahead with it. Good luck with your uni app too xxx

Mooooon piiiiiiig, have a huggle. I'm truly sorry to read your news. If you didnt have a faith you wouldnt be mourning your Nan, dont you dare keep from having it in a church, thats gonna be so ultra special and your Nan will be with you every single step of the way. Her funeral is going to be a celebration of her life, so amongst the tears and the pain inside please have that smile set aside too coz its going to be used and needed when you have your own celebration, and i'm sure she'll be raising a glass of sherry to ya too......

have a good cry, a good giggle over memories and talk to her... shout and scream at the walls if ya wanna, you'll find comfort, i'm sure.

xxx

Sorry to hear your news. I am sure it meant a lot that you managed to be there for her, now take time for you.

big hugs!

As the others have said, take a few days out before you make any decisions and remember the good times.

We are all thinking of you and sending big hugs and warm thoughts, i know like you say to go through with you wedding in 8 weeks time seems like a near impossibility right now and no one would batt a eye if a tear or two were to be shed on the day but you will get stronger your nan will be with you not just in thoughts but (although not wholely religious or anything) i do believe she will have a way of making her mark on the day and you will be able to say; 'that was down to nan',

I wish you and your family all the comfort you need over the next few weeks x x

Awww MP i'm so so sorry to hear that. ? Lxx