Basically as the title says...
My 19yr & 18yr old sons still live at home, my OH is not happy about leaving them home alone for the 2 weeks in which we will be away on Honeymoon...
I have suggested that my Mum comes over daily just to check that the house is ok and that they havent trashed it
My 19yr old though finds this incredibly "disrespecful" but has confirmed that he will be planning a party.. which was our major concern.
So I'm torn between either cancelling our honeymoon until the boys have gone to Uni (in about 18 mths/2yrs) or pay for the boys to go away on holiday for the 2 weeks so they are not going to be at home at all, or just put m,y foot down and say that this is our house and our ruules apply with regards to staying home alone.
My son is so angry with me about it hes even now refusing to eat the evening meal with us etc...
What to do!?