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mrs martinigirl
Beginner May 2007

Reading help please

mrs martinigirl, 7 August, 2009 at 22:35 Posted on Planning 0 7

Hi, my mum is getting re-married and has asked if I can do a reading at a civil ceramony - I would be grateful of any readings you may have collected along the way.

TIA

Gemma

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Latest activity by diamondsragirlsbestfriend!, 16 August, 2009 at 13:18
  • Fozzy Bear
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    Try:

    a walled garden, anon

    soulmates, anon

    a red red rose, robert burns

    sonnet 43 elizabeth barrett browning

    sonnets 18 and 116 shakespeare

    dietrich bonhoeffer, letters and papers from prison (we are having this)

    from the irrational season, madeleine l'engle

    apache ceremony of love

    velveteen rabbit extract, margery williams

    all should be findable on google.

    x

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  • Mitzi50
    Beginner June 2010
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    This is one of our readings -

    A Good Wedding Cake.
    1lb butter of youth.
    4lbs of love.
    1lb of good looks,
    1lb of sweet temper.
    3lb of self forgetfulness.
    1lb of pounded wit.
    1lb of blindness of faults.
    1lb of good humour.
    1 tablespoon of sweet argument.
    1 pint of rippling laughter.
    1 wine glass of common sense.
    1oz of modesty.
    Put the love, good looks and sweet temper into a well furnished house. Beat the butter of youth to a cream, and mix well together with the blindness of faults. Stir the pounded wit and good humour into the sweet argument, then add the rippling laughter and common sense. Work the whole together until everything is well mixed, and bake gently for ever.

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  • Amethyst
    Beginner October 2010
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    These are some possibilities for us at the moment... they are from the reading list on Hitched!

    The One

    When the one whose hand you're holding
    Is the one one who holds your heart
    When the one whose eyes you gaze into
    Gives your hopes and dreams their start,
    When the one you think of first and last
    Is the one who holds you tight,
    And the things you plan together
    Make the whole world seem just right,
    When the one whom you believe in
    puts their faith and trust in you,
    You've found the one and only love
    You'll share your whole life through.

    These I Can Promise

    I cannot promise you a life of sunshine;
    I cannot promise riches, wealth, or gold;
    I cannot promise you an easy pathway
    That leads away from change or growing old.
    But I can promise all my heart's devotion;
    A smile to chase away your tears of sorrow;
    A love that's ever true and ever growing;
    A hand to hold in yours through each tomorrow.

    i carry your heart by E.E Cummings

    i carry your heart with me (i carry it in
    my heart) i am never without it (anywhere
    i go you go, my dear; and whatever is done
    by only me is your doing, my darling)
    i fear
    no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet) i want
    no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true)
    and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant
    and whatever a sun will always sing is you

    here is the deepest secret nobody knows
    (here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
    and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows
    higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
    and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart

    i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)

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  • Cookie Galore
    Beginner November 2009
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    Assuming the registrar gives us the ok (apparently there may not be one trace of religious content in a civil ceremony but how strict they are depends on the individual registrar) we're going with an excerpt from Plato's Symposium about why people seek out their soulmate and a poem called A Hidden Place by Carole Faivre-Scott. Both reasonably easy to find by the magic of Google. Also if we're allowed we're going to ask the registrar to carry out a traditional Scottish Quaich ceremony where the marriage is sort of blessed as we both drink from the same cup. It's traditional but not very commonplace now but we love it. Even if the registrar won't do it we'll get the best man to do it ?

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  • Caz79
    Beginner October 2008
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    I have a load that the registrar emailed me for my wedding. If you would like me to email you them my email address is will delete address later.

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  • mrs martinigirl
    Beginner May 2007
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    Sorry for the dealy in replying - I have been relly ill since this. Many many thanks for those will have a good read of the . Caz79 if you wouldn't mid e-mailing me them my e-mail address is ***.**@*******.**.** Thank you all

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  • Caz79
    Beginner October 2008
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    YHM

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  • diamondsragirlsbestfriend!
    Beginner May 2008
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    Another one to add to the list - excerpt from Captain Correlli's (sp?) Mandolin, I love it.

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