Just a quick AIBU...
Is it unreasonable to feel unable to trust MrX if he proves to be unreliable at doing something?
I view being able to rely on someone to do something as being able to trust them to do something, and I feel a little betrayed if it doesn't get done... MrX views relying and trusting as 2 different things... He says they're different but related - I say that if I can't rely on someone to do something I've asked them to do (because they've forgotten/don't remember being asked/assumed I was doing it even though I asked them to) then how can I trust them...
And, it really gets my goat when people ignore the fact I've asked them to do it and thought I meant I'd do it... Sigh... Or are men just inherently unreliable creatures and it doesn't mean they're not trustworthy?
MrX also will never trust my memories over his own... Grrr... He says he'll trust them exactly as much... Even though if he remember something & I don't, I'll say 'Sorry, must've forgotten' - if I remember something that he doesn't, he'll just say that it's equally possible that he's right or I'm right and he might have forgotten, but he doesn't think he has so he won't say sorry...
Argh...