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Sherrie H
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*Sad News from Our Fluffymalone* [:(]

Sherrie H, 6 May, 2011 at 12:06 Posted on Planning 0 129

Jo (Fluffymalone) has asked me to let you all know that sadly her Darling Mum passed away on Monday completely unexpectedly but peacefully and surrounded by her family.

As you can all understand fluffy is devastated with only 8 days before her wedding, and needs time to come to terms with their tragic loss. If you would like to add a message here I will pass them all on to her as she is trying to organise the Funeral which is on Wednesday, 3 days before her wedding and understandably needs time.

From me Jo,

Take comfort in all the memories you have also the fact that you were with her & she didn't suffer for too long. Be strong and carry out all of her last wishes, and have the day she wanted you to have, full of laughter through the tears. Make her a part of your day as she will be there with you.

You are in my heart & thoughts xxxxxx

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Latest activity by cassmk2, 10 May, 2011 at 21:34
  • Purple Pixie
    Beginner July 2012
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    Jo, I am so, so sorry to hear of your incredibly sad loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Cry as much as you need to cry but then try your best to be strong and enjoy your wedding day, it sounds like that's what she wanted.

    Lots of love,
    PP

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  • Houdini
    Beginner August 2010
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    Jo, have a completely inadequate internet wierdy hug.

    As sherrie says, remember the good times. Know that she knows you're happy and she will still be there with you on the day watching you.

    I wish there was more I could do or say, but know that you are in all our thoughts. xx

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  • Rod
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    Jo (AKA Fluffy)

    I was incredibly saddened to hear /read this news. My thoughts are with you at this sad time and I hope the funeral can be a celebration of your mums life. Your wedding day will be so special for many reasons and i bet your mum will be there with you in some way.

    Lots of love and internet hugs..xxxx

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  • avintagebride
    Beginner March 2012
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    I'm so sorry to read this. How cruel life can be. My thoughts are with you and your family. I wont offer any advice as I can't imagine how you must feel. Stay strong X

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  • Flowmojo
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    As ive already said my love, im here if you need and im so so sorry. Take comfort you were there and it was peaceful, she did not suffer, and that she wanted you to have a beautiful wedding day..she'll be there watching over you

    *BIG HUGS*

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  • Naboo
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    Oh Jo I'm so sorry to hear this, I really dont know what to say! I echo everthing Sherrie said so eloquently!

    You have amazing memories and she will be with you on your day both in your heart and watching with a glass of champers safe in the knowledge that you are marrying the man of your dreams who will look after you forever!

    Big internet weirdy hugs, you and you family are in my thoughts xx

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  • 1234ABC
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    ❤️ I am so sorry to hear about your loss. We are all thinking of you at this difficult time. Just know that your mum knew you were happy and she will be content that you will be well looked after by your H2B. She'll be with you on your special day and she will make sure you know it too. Enjoy your day for yourself and for her.

    Love and Best Wishes to you and your family

    xxx

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  • Ibizalovin
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    Sending so love and condolences across the net. You are absolutely in my thoughts xx

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  • Mrs C
    Beginner March 2011
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    I am sitting here in tears having never even met you... you have touched us all and I am so sad to hear of your sudden loss Jo...

    I truly hope that you still enjoy your day, celebrate the love that you have and she will be there with you, in your heart and the people around around you, I promise. As Raef said, she left knowing that you were happy in life.

    There are no words that I can say right now, but I think you are amazing.

    xx

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  • ScillyB2B
    Beginner June 2012
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    So so sorry to hear. Thinking of you xxx

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  • SaSaSi
    Beginner July 2012
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    So sorry to hear about your loss. Be strong and proud of your mum in everything she has taught you and made you to be.

    Thoughts are with you at this sad time. x

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  • Vikster79
    Beginner July 2011
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    Jo I send you all my love and am terribly sorry to hear your news. Your Mom will always be with you and especially on your wedding day.

    Hugs and love for you and your family xxx

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  • FutureMrsRon
    Beginner February 2012
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    Oh my goodness this is so sad. Please pass on my condolences, I really hope Fluffy can take some comfort from the fact that she was with her mum when she passed, and that it was peaceful.

    Best wishes for the wedding, hope FLuffy can enjoy the day remembering her mum and thinking of how proud she would be.

    I just can't really say how sad I feel for Fluffy, big hugs go to her and her whole family

    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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  • *Nursey*
    Beginner May 2012
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    Jo, I am so so sorry. Just know that she will be at peace and not suffering now. Hope you've got a little locket or something to tuck close to your heart for your wedding day. Your Mum will be there looking over you and seeing how gorgeous you'll be.

    I'm sending all my love and best wishes to you. I know it won't ease your pain, but if there's anything I can do or if you need anything, just give me a shout

    L xxxx

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  • Red Baroness
    Beginner July 2012
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    Oh Jo, I am so very sorry for your loss and can't begin to imagine what your family is feeling right now. As the others have said, remember the good times. Your mum will be with you in spirit on your special day.

    Thinking of you. xx

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  • rachieb13782
    Beginner August 2011
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    Such sad news, Im thinking of you today and on your wedding day. x

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  • Rizzo
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    Jo, I am so gutted for you - I don't know what else to say so I'm giving you a big cyber hug.

    I'm thinking of you and your family.

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  • Twickers
    Beginner March 2011
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    I am so sorry to hear this, and my thoughts are with you and your family.

    As the others have said, I am sending completely inadequate weirdy internet hugs.

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  • (Claire)
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    I am struggling to hold back the tears, I am so so sorry for your loss fluffy - I can only reiterate what everyone else has said. Your wedding day will be so special for all the right reasons and your mum will be with you every step of the way. Thinking of you and your family at this very sad and difficult time. xxx

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  • lisaloulou
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    Jo, I am so sorry, and very saddened but this shocking news. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. I am sorry you didn't have more time together but your mum will be so proud of her wonderful daughter and she will be there on your big day looking down on you. Lots of love xx

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  • Blonde Viki
    Beginner July 2012
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    Oh FluffyJo, I am so so sorry to hear your sad news. Like others have said, I am welling up despite not knowing you 'for real', please know you have my sincerest heartfelt sympathy.

    I cannot imagine how you are feeling right now. I hope that you have friends and family around you who will support, love and hug you through this.

    You are in my thoughts today.

    *hugs*

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  • WhiteRose84
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    Jo, I cannot begin to imagine how you are feeling at this very sad time for you and your family. Sending you big hugs. I'm sure your mum will be with you both on your special day.

    Big hugs - I know nothing we can say will help but stay strong. xxx

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  • kharv
    Beginner March 2012
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    I'm so sorry to hear this. I've been thinking about you throughout and I can't imagine how you must be feeling. Your mum will be smiling down at you on your day x

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  • lovelygirl
    Beginner August 2011
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    Dear Fluffy, my heart sank when i saw this thread for you, I wish you all the best for your future and hope you can enjoy your special day with your H2b. Thinking of you at this sad time, Hugs

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    I'm so incredibly sorry to hear this, all my thoughts are with you and your family.

    Hope you have the most perfect wedding day, she will still be there celebrating with you.

    xxx

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  • VikingPrincess
    Beginner December 2011
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    Jo,

    I just don't know any words that could ever be considered appropriate... I hoped all the time, since you told us your mum was ill, for a happy ending... I cannot believe it still. I don't even know you or your Mum, but I just froze when I read the news. I wish you strength to be able to get through this and through your wedding day. I wish you wisdom and peace so that you can keep going in the same brave way your mum told you to not be daft and go on your hen do. She sounded like a wonderful person, brave and strong, and this is the time to prove to her you are her daughter. However, find the quiet moment and let the tears come, for they also have their place.

    "For some moments in life there are no words." ~David Seltzer, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory

    Lots and lots of hugs and love sent your way!

    VP xxx

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  • Little Madam
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    Fluffy, I am sad to be reading this.

    Too shocked to say anything constructive, so just sending all my love and best wishes.

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  • SoontobeMrsB
    Beginner October 2011
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    Oh gosh Jo, I'm so so sorry to hear this news. I can't imagine what you're going through right now and you must feel as if you've got a mountain ahead of you to climb. From what I've heard of your mum and your family, you're all so brave. I hope that you can get through the next few days and manage to smile on your wedding day so that wherever your mum is watching from (because she will be!), she'll be able to see her beautiful strong daughter looking happy and as she'd want you to be.

    Thinking of you all during this incredibly difficult time. xxxxxxxxxx

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  • Browny
    Beginner June 2011
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    So sorry to hear your news fluffy. I know nothing I say will make things any easier but you and your family are in my thoughts.

    xxx

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    Beginner September 2011
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    So sorry to hear this Jo my thoughts are with you and your family x

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  • jojo2
    Beginner June 2012
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    So sorry for your loss. She will want you to smile and have the amazing wedding day you have spent so much time excitedly planning.

    Be strong she will be with you all the way xx

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    Hi Jo

    No words can even start to express how you are feeling at the moment but I am so sorry to hear about your sad loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

    We are all here for you if you need a virtual shoulder ?.

    Lot's of love

    Nat

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