Hello everyone.
I'm having a bit of a dilemma at the moment and hoping you can help me. We chose the mens suits quite some time ago now, at which time my H2B asked his brother in law and other sister's boyfriend if they would like to wear the suits too (and explained to them that they would have to pay the hire fee), to which they said that they would definitely like to wear the suits. So we put down the deposit for 9 suits about 5 months ago now.
Now both sisters are saying that they refuse to pay £110 for a suit that their other halfs can't wear again, to which I was a bit annoyed as we told them a long time ago what the price would be. So as a gesture of goodwill we have offered to to pay £20 towards their suits to make it a little easier for them, but they are still adamant that they want to go out and buy one rather than rent one.
They have been asking H2B what colour the suit, waistcoat and cravats are so that they can go out and buy something similar. Am I being completely unfair by saying that if they don't want to hire the *actual* suits then I don't really want them to try to match as it's just going to end up looking like a complete mess with different shades of colour and different styles. I am thinking of speaking with them and telling them that if they want to buy a suit then that's fine, but I would rather them just buy a normal suit (something they can wear again) than trying to match the hire outfits. I know this is probably going to cause uproar because they will complain that I am "not including them", but really... what more can I do?
*edit: I should probably add: the suits are Italian silk & the cravats are being made from the bridesmaid dress fabric which is why they are so expensive and virtually impossible to match!