The night before the big day....

Quite a few of the bridal party are wanting to stay at the hotel the night before, I think I'll be sharing a room with my sister. There's no way I'm sleeping on my own the night before, it's haunted ?

I shared with my bridesmaid the night before.

I think it's fine for your bm to stay with you the night before, my sister is insisting on staying with me the night before

I think I'll be having my BM with me the night before, I would feel a bit lonely by myself ?

Why on earth would it not be ok?!

We have booked two rooms in a hotel for the night before the wedding and the night of the wedding. My sister (MOH) and I will be staying in the nicest room the night before and OH and my sister's husband (usher) will be staying in the smaller room. On the night of the wedding, we'll swap.

Far better to have some company than have to spend the night alone.

I stayed with my bridesmaid.

I stayed with my sister in her hotel room the night before her wedding when she got married last year and my mum had a room opposite us (BIG snorer and we both refused to share with her! ?) ..... the arrangements will probably be similar for my wedding but depends on whether her husband is happy with that and what the situation is by then (they're trying for a baby at the mo)..... if she or my other sister (other bridesmaid) couldn't stay with me i'd probably ask a friend to stay with me, don't think i'd want to be on my own, I'm very easily bored and i'd probably get all stressed without someone there to distract me!

My moh and other bridesmaid are staying at home with me! x

Question: do you want her to share with you?

if yes...then its fine.

if no...then thats fine too

not sure why it wouldnt be ok? i dont think i'd want to be on my own personally.

Me, my bms and my parents are staying the night before, i'm staying in the bridal suite... our plan is to finish all our diy stuff for the day, head out to dinner and then come back and have girlie pampering night

Exactly this. I'm staying alone, but it's because I want to. I'll probably find it hard to sleep that night anyway, let alone sharing the room. Plus I like a bit of me time in the morning to dry my hair with no clothes on (TMI! haha) etc. We will all (bridesmaid's and mum) start to get ready at around 9am together. But it's completely up to you!

WSS.

I'm staying in a cottage on the venue property the night before with my BMs and their husband/boyfriends/baby. They're helping to sort out the ifnishing touches the day before.

Why wouldn't it be ok?

Thanks for the advice ladies.

I thought there might be some kind of un written rule that you were meant to stay on your own etc!

Have asked her to share with me and she is over the moon!!

xx

haha now we all know Duckbum a little better haha

I am sharing with one of my bridesmaids as it makes it cheaper for us both!

I'm sure it's okay to have someone stay with you. I will be in the room with my son as I won't sleep with anyone else there (probably won't sleep well anyway actually!). I'm thinking of paling my son off onto my parents for the night though as he has a habit of waking at 5:30 in England!

My mum and sister are staying with me, there is a king size and a double sofa bed in the room

I'll be staying in my Mum's room the night before. Either that or the sofa! ?

My mum is staying with me at the hotel :-)

I shall be staying in the cottage in the grounds of our venue. My BMs will be staying with me but I've got the huge master bedroom with ensuite and they'll be in the twin room!

I'm staying at home, in my own bed. My Mam and possibly youngest BM will be staying over with me (but in the spare rooms) the night before.

If I had been staying at the hotel, then I would have had BM or Mam staying with me.

Hello date twin :-)

I'm really looking forward to the night before my wedding.

I am staying at a hotel with all of my bridesmaids and mum. We are planning an afternoon of pampering, champagne drinking and girlie movie watching!!

I'll probably share a room with my mum!

I'll be sleeping by myself because i would rather have the space to get a good nights sleep, rather than lying there listening to someone else snoring or sharing a bed which would wake me up.

I'm staying at my mum and dad's the night before - there will be my mum, dad, sister (Maid of Honour) brother (Usher) and his girlfriend. My other BM is coming over in the morning which I'm glad about as I was hoping for the night before would just be my family, I think too many people there would stress me out!

I will be sharing with my sister - also my cbm - as i think i will need someone to keep me calm, and i find it difficult to get to sleep on my own without oh!

I'm staying at the hotel the night before with my mam and bridesmaids and I'm sharing a room with my mam.

I wanted to stay on my own but she moaned and got upset so I have no choice really as don't want to upset her!

Mall other halfs family are staying in a b&b nearby the night before as well.

I'm sharing with my BM the night before, infact I even made her OH go and stay with mine so that I wouldn't be alone ?

I'm staying at home with OH and the children the night before. In the morning he's leaving when I go to the hairdressers and gettgin ready with his best man and then I won't see him until the ceremony at the RO. I want my 'wow' moment with the dress/hair/make-up but I'd rather be with him than not Others think it's odd, but we don't go in for tradition, really.

So, as the others have said, do whatever you think is right for you ?

We booked the hotel down the road from our house for me and my mum, dad and nan. OH is having our flat. I am sharing a suite with my parents (2 beded) and my nan has the room over the way from us. Meeting my BMs there in the morning for breakfast x

I'm staying at the venue I have booked the bridal suite so my 6 BM'sand I have plenty of room to get ready. All the BM's are also staying. I have also found out that a lot of guest are now also staying the night before and on the night, so looks like it may be party night ! OH is staying at our house with his son and Bestman.

I was staying at my folks house and i stayed up till about 2am watchin a film with my brother drinkin fosters and eating pringles