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The things I wish I could say

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Beki<3'sphill, 14 June, 2011 at 16:19

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There's certain thing i wish i could say: To H2B: I love you dearly, please help me when I ask for help with wedding plans instead of the usual "I'm leaving it to you because you enjoy it" surprisingly enough, when I ask for help it's because I want it. To stepmum: your amazing, but PLEASE stop...

There's certain thing i wish i could say:

To H2B: I love you dearly, please help me when I ask for help with wedding plans instead of the usual "I'm leaving it to you because you enjoy it" surprisingly enough, when I ask for help it's because I want it.

To stepmum: your amazing, but PLEASE stop slagging off all of my ideas. You've had your wedding, now it's my turn, i hate it when you say "why are you doing that?" and " are you really bothering with all that" when I say i want a wedding cake. All I want is our wedding, our way.

To dad: Thank you so much for everything, but please stop telling me how your going to kill our cat, I know you mean it as a joke, but its really upsetting. And please get better soon.

To my brother: I know you don't want me to get married because your very protective, BUT i will do what i want. and i AM getting married. In less than 2 weeks. Please try and just pretend like your interested.

To my MOH: PLEASE try and help a little more, I know your having a rough time atm, but whining everyday about your boyfriend is getting slightly boring. And im very upset that you won't stay over the night before the wedding!!!!!!!!

To one of my page boys : your so cute, you don't owe us anything for your suit, so you can keep your £20 in your piggy bank for whatever you like.

To my birth mother: You know I'm getting married, I know you haven't cared/bothered/even spoken to me for 11 years, but i wish you would get in contact and say something, ANYTHING!!

And finally

To the MOTG: We wish you could be here to enjoy our special day, we will be thinking of you.

That's better, anyone else want to join in?

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OZZYGIRL · 15 June, 2011 at 00:58
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To mum - I am heart sore with missing you every day and would give anything to have you back for my wedding day.

To Dad - I know how much you miss mum but using it as an excuse to feign disinterest in the wedding is hurting me. I am not happy that you guilted us into inviting your brothers widow to the day reception, she bad mouthed mum and I thought I was being good inviting here to the evening do

To my sis - Even though you are thousands of miles away you are helping, your advice and support is so appreciated and when you get here a week before the bi day there will be loads for you to do. But I am so mad at you for ordering your dresses at the last minute. A due date for them arriving 3 weeks before you leave to come here has me a lttle paniced

To my aunt - thanks for coming with me to the bridal fayre and paying for my wedding cake. but I will not be covering my little tattoo on my shoulder blade and no I do not think it is inappropriate to wear a strapless bridal gown instead of an 'outfit' even though I am so much older than H2B . No i don't think I should send your sister in America an invite even though you don't think she can afford to come (trouble is we probably will to keep the peace)

To my friend - thanks for being my proxy MOH and helping me decide which dress.

To the rest of my family in England, it would be nice if anyone of you would show a little interest

to H2B ex please don't pull your xmas stunt and spoil our day. The kids are really looking forward to coming and if you stop them at the last hour you will only be making yourself look bad in their eyes

To my ex best friend - jealousy is a terrible trait, if you think of me as much as you claimed you would have swallowed it down and joined in my excitement

To h2B you are a pain in the behind but you are my pain and I love you good or bad

thats betterx
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Luna_12 · 15 June, 2011 at 08:25
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This is a brilliant thread.

To h2b - I still cant believe you asked me to marry you. Sometimes I still get scared you will leave me like others did. I really can't wait to marry you although it feels like we already are married.I wish i earned more money to give you a better day, Im sorry our wedding will be so small and intimate. But it will still be beautiful and at the edn of the day its given us the perfect excuse not to invite some of the freaks we know lol x

To my parents - Thank you so much for helping us make decisions. I understand you cant afford to help us financially but I love that you are coming up with lots of fab ideas for us to keep it on a budget. I know this cant be easy for you because of my past. Thank you for accepting H2b the way you have.

To FIL 2b - If you come to the wedding please dont drink alcohol. Please for once in your life put this son first. Dont call him by your other sons name, dont comment on my body shape, dont upset him....please....just once.

To mil2b - Thankyou for helping h2b pick songs for the ceremony thank you for being so lovely although you dont know me very well.

To my nan and grandad - I miss you so much. I wish you were here to meet h2b and our future children. It hurts every day that you wont be.

To h2b Grandad - Thank you for giving me this wonderful man. I am thanking you and not his parents because you were the one who made him who he is today. I never met you but please know that I love you with all my heart

To my sisters - Youare the most amazing people I know. Thank you so much for all your love and support.

To my Bil2b - Its a shame you couldnt put your brother first just once in your life. Dont worry though, Im going to put him first for the rest of my life.
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aliasdeb · 15 June, 2011 at 09:17
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Great thread!

H2B - It has taken over 25 years but I am so happy that we are going to be married - love you more than words can say.

MOH - I cannot see why you can't afford to drive down 1 hr 20 mins for your dress fitting when you have just spent god knows how much doing up your new house (1 of 3!) with your new toy boy. Also, coming down on the train the morning of the wedding because TB needs the car is not acceptable when I had offered for you to stay in the suite with me and arranged for my hairdresser to be there to do your hair!

Mum - Thank you for not pressing me to invite people I rarely see - however I will wear the black net underskirt, I will have roses and I will put my hair up even if 'It is alright for movie stars but ordinary people need something round their faces'!!

Dad - Thank you and Mum for contributing so much and allowing us to have the day we want, I know you have had a long wait to give me away but I am so glad you will get to see me married at last

BM - You are 11, you do not need high heels!

Friends of H2B - Just because we did not invite your 13 year old to the day there was no need for you to not come until the evening as well - you only live round the corner and I do not appreciate you trying to make us feel bad.

My lovely friend who is making my dress - thank you so much for getting excited over things with me - I need a friend like you!
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Beki<3'sphill · 19 June, 2011 at 21:11
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Friend, i like you dress, but you can't wear it. IT'S WHITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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