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Beginner December 2011

Wedding report - Eternallyme - Saturday 17th December - Big Flash!

eternallyme, 5 January, 2012 at 00:27 Posted on Planning 0 25

I keep trying to do a wedding report but every time I start writing things down it seems too negative but in my head and my heart the day itself was perfect (it is negative in the sense that I was really ill for three days leading up to the wedding having had a major panic attack at work on the Wednesday that triggered the worst ever flare up of my IBS -never known pain like it before or since. I also had some stress from OH's family but it didn't stop us from having an amazing day (only minor things like his aunt complaining about her room being too cold amongst other things - I didn't care nor need to know!). Anyway, not going to get in to the ramble of negative but will share the positive and the best way for me to do this is with pictures and a quick summary!

Anyway, here is a quick positive run down of the day:

- I married my best friend......He was so worried about me in the days leading up but on the day it felt like all the stress just evaporated and we just kept smiling. We had a lovely first dance and later in the evening we really danced the way we use to when we first met (to loud rock music, singing at each other but not touching) - Lots of people were surprised at what a good mover he is as they had never seen him dance before.

- It was snowing when I drove to the venue early in the morning but as I got closer the sun came out and there was a rainbow which made me feel much calmer and my little brother said that I changed as soon as I arrived at the hotel (oddly the IBS pain went altogether as soon as I got there and I was okay the rest of the day)

- My dad was there to walk be down the aisle! When he first saw me he really started crying, as did I - he said that he hadn't expected to feel like that but he was very proud. He did have a little fall on the stairs and cut his elbow just before we sat down for the meal and apart from needing a little nap, he managed to stay all day and enjoyed the party! We didn't do our father daughter dance though as I just felt too emotional to do it - he didn't mind and he was pretty knackered!

- My mum was beaming all day and even though she can hardly walk due to Rheumatoid Arthritis she pushed through the pain and she had a dance with me to Dire Straights and she danced with the children (as did I - i felt like a fairy princess with all the children wanting to dance with me all the time)

- All 3 of my brothers were very proud and impressed with the day - it was better than they had expected and even my brother who i don't always get on with told my youngest brother that it was the best wedding he had been to apart from is own - I take this as a big compliment!

- The food was wonderful, the staff were great at the venue and the party was amazing!

- We had an amazing day with the people we love and I get to spend the rest of my life and hopefully have babies with the most amazing man I know!

So, here are a few photo's:

Me and my proud parents (excuse the fact that dad's not smiling - his teeth kept slipping!LOL)


Me and my beautiful Bridesmaids


About to walk down to my hubby to be!


Lots of smiling!!


The Talbot room where we got married


Signing the register (felt really weird pretending!)


Just love this photo!


Leaving as Mr and Mrs P


Everyone! It was blooming freezing so many people dashed indoors as soon as this was taken!


Confetti Shot - was rose petal confetti - seemed like a lovely idea but felt like cornflakes had been chucked down my dress - oh well, loved the photo's!


The wedding party


A few other photos I love!




My hubby with our beautiful boy Charlie! I did have a few photo's with him too but be got my cloak a bit muddy! (quite use to being covered in mud with a spaniel)


I wore my DM's all day and they were SO comfy! Lots of people asked to see my boots as they couldn't get over it!


The room ready for wedding breakfast


Wishing well, and favor/cupcake table

Got a few more pics so will see if I can add them in the next post?!

25 replies

Latest activity by vicster, 12 January, 2012 at 14:21
  • Fergo
    Beginner December 2012
    Fergo ·
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    Congratulations!! Fantastic pictures, love the one of you with your parents and also your hubby with your doggy!

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  • E
    Beginner December 2011
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    Peppermint creams and coconut ice made by my husband - he is amazing in the kitchen!


    Cupcakes made by my youngest brothers Girlfriend - they were delicious!


    Last minute center pieces - the paper whites that my mum grew blossomed too early so we had to improvise and went for orchids which is my favourite flower!


    Wedding cake (3 tiers of my mums amazing Christmas cake) - we had intended to put sugar crystals around the cake too but they wouldn't stick as the royal icing was pretty solid - just settled for the ribbon and lights instead.


    The cake topper - it didn't arrive until the Thursday before the wedding but I feel it was worth the uncertainty - very happy with it!


    Guest book - word of advise for all B2B - make sure that someone has the job of making sure this gets signed as we didn't and are now carrying it around when we see people who missed it!


    First dance and my back tattoo



    A few of my beautiful nieces.... for me having children at a wedding is all part of the fun - loved seeing them in their party dresses and glittery shoes!


    My proud brothers!


    The morning after... we had a lovely breakfast with our guests who stayed and then I really couldn't be bothered to get dressed to drive home, only to put my PJ's back on so I went home in them - I'm all about being comfy!


    Right, well I think that is me done - It was all that I had hoped for and I am very much enjoying being a Mrs. After 9 years together it has been a long time coming and to be honest I do feel different - calmer, more relaxed and very much in love!

    We had the day we wanted, the way we wanted, with the people we wanted and it was all worth it!

    I wish you all well with your own planning and hope that you all have the wedding that you dream of!

    Deb.X

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  • beady
    Beginner September 2012
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    Looked like a really fun day, beautiful pictures congratulations ?

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  • S
    Beginner April 2012
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    You looked beautiful Smiley smile So happy you enjoyed it after being poorly in the run up to it Smiley smile

    Congratulations Smiley smile

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  • Nik_Nak
    Beginner September 2011
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    A girl after my own heart ref comfy pjs...beautiful pictures of a beautiful couple. Congratulations x

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  • Ali_G
    Beginner October 2012
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    Loving the PJs! hehe.

    You looked wonderful and looks like an amazing day was had, and I love your cloak!

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  • SassyT
    Beginner August 2013
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    Your.dress.is.stunning!

    I suffer from IBS too brought on by my ME/CFS so I utterly feel your pain and worry about the last minute flare up! I'm so glad it vanished for your big day!

    And WOW that tattoo!! Amazing!

    I'm so happy your day went well, and the PJ photo is brilliant!

    Many Congratulations MRS!

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  • Nutella
    Beginner March 2013
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    Love your dress (did others know it was going to be green? what did they think?)

    Gorgeous pics of nieces and children

    Looks like such a brilliant day, and I love the fact you went home in your pjs (this sounds exactly like something I would do!)

    Congratulations MRS!

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  • Mrs_imp
    Beginner June 2012
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    Congratulations, it looks as thoughyou had a fantastic day despite the worries running up to it! It looks as though it was a lovely sunny, crisp winters day.

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  • Big Apple
    Beginner February 2013
    Big Apple ·
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    Perfectly written report. Congratulations you look fab. WNutellaS about your dress, what did people say?!

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  • Mrs C
    Beginner March 2011
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    Beautiful!

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  • *Nursey*
    Beginner May 2012
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    Beautiful pictures, congratulations!

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  • jojo2
    Beginner June 2012
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    Congratulations love your pictures. You have a very resourceful family making those lovely favours, cupcakes and centrepieces.

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  • I
    Beginner January 1999
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    Congratulations! lovely pictures, so pleased your dad was ok Smiley smile

    LOVE your dress! Very tinkerbell! x

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  • *JLS*
    Beginner July 2012
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    Congratulations!! From a fellow coloured dress bride - yours was beautiful and I am so happy that your dad was there to celebrate the day with you.

    Jxx

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  • sal.san
    Beginner December 2011
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    Deb, you look gorgeous!! Love the report, love the photos!! Your day your way!!

    Congratulations to you both. Hope you have a fabulous honeymoon.

    Sal xx

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  • BustyB
    Beginner June 2012
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    Love your photos. Looks like such a fun day!

    I am in love with your dress and cape!

    And I completely agree about the PJ thing, I would wear mine all the time if i was allowed!

    Bx

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  • overtherainbow
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    Congratulations! I also loved your dress and all the goodies your family made too! Lovely report - glad to hear your Dad was OK as well.

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  • cookiekat
    Beginner August 2012
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    Gorgeous photos x

    Congratulations !

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  • HayleyMay
    Beginner September 2012
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    Amazing dress! I've never seen a bride in that colour but I could see it becoming more popular. Unusual yet subtle. Lovely! And I agree with what you said about kids in wedding. They always do something to add to the fun, and its creates more of a family atmosphere!

    Lovely wedding!

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  • charliebird7
    Beginner March 2012
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    Congratulations to you both. Lovely photos.

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    Beginner December 2011
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    Thanks ladies!

    A few of you asked what other people knew/ thought - everyone knew I was going to be wearing green but only a few knew roughly what shade (my OH knew as we matched his tie to the dress) - most people thought that it would be a darker green and in a more medieval style - Everyone was pleasantly surprised by how girly it was. People seemed more surprised by the boots than the dress!

    I felt amazing in all of it though and the cape was definitely needed as although the sun was out it was very crisp and cold!

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  • JennyH10
    Beginner May 2013
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    What a stunning report. Congratulations to you both! I am so glad for you that your Dad was able to make it, that photo of you with your parents looking so proud is a definite framer. You and your husband look so happy together too and your day looks unique. I wish you a long healthy, happy marriage xxx

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  • MrsH29.06
    Beginner June 2012
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    Fab report.... you looked stunning.... I felt really giddy looking at your flashes....

    Beautiful x x x

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  • vicster
    Beginner December 2011
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    Awwww looks sooooo fab! you look stunning... the dress, the cape, the headpiece! and you look soo happy. OH looking pretty daper too!! gorgeous venue and delighted it all went so well. bizarrely i was ill leading up to mine, woke up the morning of with a temperature of about 102!! funny how you can get through it eh?

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