What have you most and least enjoyed about planning your wedding?

At the moment I think I have enjoyed everything, but that is only cos it is so far off yet, and I haven't had any major stresses to cope with (as yet!) I have avoided any family issues so far, as OH family minds their own business and my mum is hugely supportive of anything and everything. OH very helpful and good when I want to blather on about centrepieces or whatever. Having a bridesman so no BM flounces. No kids involved, so no worries about outfits being outgrown etc. Found the dress easily, everything we wanted has been available on our date for us to book - I am hugely lucky! Just keeping fingers crossed I am not jinxing myself here! My fave bit was having our cheap as chips engagement party and seeing all our friends and family together for the first time.

I've enjoyed most of it, with the only exception being family politics when it comes to guestlist. I.e. being told by the inlaws and parents 'oh you *have* to invite so-and-so because (insert a silly reason here)'. Argh. That alone has made us both question why we didn't just fly away somewhere to do it!

Other than that it has all been very exciting so far. Only thing I'm not looking forward to now is sitting down and figuring out how to do the invites in office so its easy to cut them out, minimal paper waste etc - And then assembling 50 or so of them!

Best bit by far has been dress shopping! Shallow I know, but there we go ?

I'm lucky - we both ignore these suggestions from OH's parents...my parents are just very chilled and said whatever you want is fine - we would like x, y & z to be there, but its your day so you make your own decisions and we won't take offense no matter what you choose

So far I have absolutely loved every second of it, I'm sure that may change as the big day draws closer.

What I haven't enjoyed is saving like crazy and therefore having to cut back on things and miss days/nights out. Also, my brother can't make it back from NZ to give me away which is devastating, so now I have the task of picking between two stepdaads and an Uncle, which is tricky to say the least.

Enjoyed most- choosing dress ad flowers- hates everything else and cant wait for nov 4th to get her so the day can be ours' and not having to please everyon else- and would i choose weddin planning as a future job hell no! am i enjoying planning my day - no☹️ guess ive just lost all the excitment at the mo

Love: 'designing' the day, picking a style, thinking of all the lovely bits and pieces to make it happen. I have loved buying all the pretty card and crafty bits. Hate: feeling like I might not pull it off, that these decisions are 'final'. But haven't disliked any specific job, per se.