Did you tell anyone about the colour of your bms dresses or your own?
My sil is bm for her friend and they went to try them on today, I was watching my nephews. When she came back i asked did she like the dress and what colour it was but she has been sworn to secrecy on anything about the dresses. There was someone in the shop at the same time as her who she knew (a customer of where she works, so not very likely that she would even recognise her) so she didn't want to try have the dress on in front of her. She sounds as if she is becoming a bit of a bridezilla, she also asked her bms why they weren't crying when she came out in her dress? ?
Is that normal?
Also my other sil was a bm for her friend and it was the same, not allowed to tell the colour of the bm dress, in case I told anyone. I wasn't at the wedding or photographs since the wedding, which was last year. It's not as if I was prying, I was just asking in general about the wedding etc.