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fizzypop
Beginner July 2011

Your actual answer when he popped the question

fizzypop, 28 September, 2010 at 20:54

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I saw this on another forum, and thought I'd ask you girls. In the movies, boy asks "will you marry me," and girl answers "yes!". In reality, my boy asked me and I said "really?" and then "Ok!" before promptly bursting into tears! So ladies, what was your answer to the ultimate question? x

I saw this on another forum, and thought I'd ask you girls. In the movies, boy asks "will you marry me," and girl answers "yes!". In reality, my boy asked me and I said "really?" and then "Ok!" before promptly bursting into tears!

So ladies, what was your answer to the ultimate question? x

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  • ruth23
    Beginner September 2011
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    We were on holiday in Turkey and it was our second anniversary and we went out to dinner and he asked me to be his co-pilot and fellow alpha cat (private joke as to who's the alpha cat in our house lol) and then said will you marry me? I was like, "yes, of COURSE I will!" I kind of knew it was coming as we'd spoken about it before but I still got goosebumps!

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  • JellySweets
    Beginner September 2011
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    Oh i love this thread. Here's my story and answer -

    It was last christmas evening and after a great day me and my oh we're sat in our front room watching his son play withhis new toys, my oh came and sat on the floor in front of me and i just looked into his eyes and told him how happy i was and how much i loved him and then gave him a hug, while i was holding him he asked me 'what would you say if i asked you to marry me' to which i replied 'i'd say yes' so he went hold on a minute and practically ran out of the room a few minutes later he returned with a ring box and a christmas present, he got down on one knee and said 'will you marry me?' I burst into tears and nodded and went 'yeah' put the ring on and hugged him really tight then my step son fell over and banged his head on the table and started crying sort of killing the romance lol.

    It was perfect and i'd never change it x

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  • fizzypop
    Beginner July 2011
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    I love all of these. I love thinking about when we got engaged, I remember walking down from where we were and sitting on a bench for an hour talking about our wedding! We were away and had agreed to tell people when we got back (this was Saturday, weren't back until the Tuesday). I was bursting to tell someone, so I kept telling OH! Every now and again, I'd tell him we were engaged. He was like, yes I know, I asked you! I remember feeling like I was in a happy little bubble. When we left the guest house, we wrote that we'd got engaged in the guest book so the owner was technically the first person we told! She even sent us an engagement card when we got home. This is so fluffy, sorry ?

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  • JellySweets
    Beginner September 2011
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    I still do this and i keep saying 'im gonna marry you' im sure i drive him mad but he's great and replies 'I know you are and im gonns marry you'

    I get very over excited especially when i look at my ticker and see im so close to being at the less than 2 year mark!!

    x

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  • fizzypop
    Beginner July 2011
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    I remember when we got engaged, we had 2 years 4 months and it felt like a lifetime! Now we have ten months, and the time is zooming along. It really does go very fast x

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  • JellySweets
    Beginner September 2011
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    originally we planned/hoped for next year but we realised it just wasnt realistic so we had over 2 and a half years before we were going to get married and now its almost less than 2 years hehe sooooooooo excited and im sure it will fly by now Smiley smile x

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  • Natalie2011
    Beginner September 2012
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    I met my man on 01/11/2002 and all through the 7+ years we'd been together he said he didn't want to get married and that a 20 year mortgage was more than enough commitment! LOL!

    on 31st October 2009, he met me from work in town and we went for a meal and a few drinks, had a row - I told him he'd been really distant and in another place completely so I was wondering whether his mind was on someone else too! when we got home I sat in the front room refusing to speak to him and he stood in the kitchen until midnight.

    Then at 12:01am he called me into the kitchen, clambered on top of the work surface and took a shoe box off the top of the cupboard and opened it. He was crying so I was like "oh right is this the reveal of the other woman" fighting back the tears he gave me an envelope with "Mrs O'Beirnes" well that's his surname so I was completely puzzled. In the envelope was a cheque with my name in the recipients section and where the amount was it said "My Life" and he'd signed it. He whispered "you've spoilt my suprise"

    Still so induldged in my thoughts I could not get to grips with what was going on, then he passed me a necklace style box which I held still completely oblivious!

    Then as I opened the box he went down on one knee and (sobbing his heart out) I opened the box and in gold sticker lettering it said Will you Marry Me...?

    my legs went from under me and we both collapsed into a heap on the kitchen floor! After several minutes of sobbing I told him that nothing in the world would stop me marrying him! The next day he took me to get my ring as he had it made for me. Pear shaped solitaire diamond in platinum setting. the week after we'd booked our venue! The rest, as they say is history!

    He's now forgiven me for spoiling the suprise! we get wed 3rd September 2011 Smiley smile

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  • Mrs_T2B
    Beginner May 2011
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    We were in London on little break. When back in the hotel I went to the loo and came back to my H2B holding a velvet red box in his hand. I squealed and opened the box and it was ear rings ? I was secretly gutted and he laughed. He then pulled my beautiful engagement ring out of his pocket and got down on one knee and proposed. I said YES YES YES and then dived on him knocking him over lol!

    I then rang my parents who already knew lol ? x

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  • *JLS*
    Beginner July 2012
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    Aw I'm loving all these stories Smiley smile

    We got engaged on Xmas day last year. We have been talking about it for years and I kind of already knew it was happening as my best friend had taken me out ring shopping and let it slip although that was months before hand so i spent ages wondering when it was going to happen. by the time it came to Xmas day I had given up on the idea so i was none the wiser Smiley smile

    We had laid all the presents out and he said "why don't we get the camcorder out to tape us opening the presents?", I said no (thinking, why would we want to do that?!) So we opened the presents and he finally said, "can you sit in the chair for me?" and disappeared upstairs....I kind of knew what was happening by this time Smiley smile So he came back got on one knee and said "i'm so sorry I made you wait for so long (we've been together eight years), I love you so much, will you marry me?" to which I started blubbing and said "of, course!" he then pulled out a beautiful three stone ring which he had designed himself.

    It was fun phoning people and when they asked "what did you get for Christmas?" I would say "ENGAGED!!!"

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  • *JLS*
    Beginner July 2012
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    What a great proposal Smiley smile

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  • L
    Beginner July 2012
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    We were in a beautiful hotel suite in Chester, all ready to go out, I had a new dress on (cream with polka dots) and new make up and felt like a princess. We were sat on a beautiful high sided gold and black sofa, I took a sip of pink champagne and he took my hand and said "Will you marry me?". I didn't say a word for about 10 seconds, then said "Yes. Millions and Billions of Yes's"... then burst into tears of joy. When I think back it seems like a film lol... it was amazing.

    Loving reading all of your stories! xx

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  • Ptoldriver
    Beginner September 2012
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    We were opening our christmas persents on christmas eve (after midnight so technically christmas day) and last year he had kept one as a surprise for me to open last so this year I thought I'd do the same to him, he then trumped that by getting out the engagement ring (whilst I was watching Alan Carr chatty man, i'll never forgot that program now!) he sat next to me on the sofa and said 'i was wondering (yes those words!) if you would marry me?', my response? i couldn't look at him, i asked if it was a joke, was he being serious and then kind of mumbled a yes. he put the ring on my finger, i had a little cry (still hadn't looked at him by this point and then i ran off to the kitchen! It was a bl**dy big shock!

    Obviously i was very pleased and once i had calmed down was very happy, he then told me he'd been planning it since we'd got back from our summer holiday and had planned to do it when we were in Vegas in the November but the ring wasn't ready. It had been hiding in various places in our house for the last 6 weeks until he eventually took it to his parents for fear i would stumble across it! Considering it was such a shock to me I remember thinking on Christmas Eve ' hmmmm, wouldn't it be nice if he proposed tonight, better do my nails just in case'. Glad I did now as they looked lovely in the photo of my hand i sent to my friends x

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  • Weegee
    Beginner August 2012
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    This sounds really bad, but because it was such a suprise i cant actually remember exactly what he said! He propose on a gorgeous white beach in cuba as the sun was setting. He'd not really talked of getting married before and i think he said somthing like "would you marry me?" in a casual manner. There's me snapping happily away with my camera taking shots of the sunset and when i spun to take a snap of him, I replied "yeah course, you know i will" It wasn't till I looked properly- he was sat on a sun bed with a ring box in his hand and said something like "well thats good as i've got this for you!" ?

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  • Mrs C
    Beginner March 2011
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    H2B and I were sitting in a bedouin tent in Egypt drinking wine when he told me to close my eyes. Me being suspicious said no! He tried again and so I did, and really shut them, screwed up face and everything (must have looked sooo pretty!). He asked me to open my eyes again and I said no! I had an idea by then what he was doing... I eventually opened them, saw him down on one knee with the biggest sparliest princess cut diamond I had ever seen! He said that he loved me more than anything in the world and would I marry him. I immediately went to scream but nothing came out, then burst in tears, did the whole camp girly face waving thing and nodded... after about 10 minutes of this he said is that a yes then, to which I replied yes of course it is you daft bugger, these are happy tears!

    I then ran off to find some poor random stranger to come and take our photo!!!

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  • TheNinjaPigeon
    Beginner January 2011
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    I love love this thread and have a wee tear in my eye. Your stories are fab. Mine goes like this:

    G and I had arranged to go for dinner after work on a Friday, we do this every few weeks so it wasn't anything out of the ordinary. He told me to take my going out clothes to work as he'd had to book an earlier table than usual. Then at 4pm at work I get a call to say that he had managed to shift the table to later so he'd come and get me as normal and we'd go home. No big deal, I still had no idea. But then instead of going home we started going off track and ended up at a very nice hotel and restaurant. He'd sneakily taken a half day off work and had already checked in and arranged the room with a single rose and a chilled bottle of champagne.

    He proposed as we stepped through the door (I found out afterwards that he couldn't stand to wait any longer) getting down onto one knee so that when I turned around to ask him why we were at Jesmond Dene he was already on the floor and getting out the ring. I couldn't even speak, I just nodded like a demon and burst into tears. I insisted on an immediate cuddle and ended up putting the ring on myself about 10mins later when I remembered that I had one! Then we got changed and went for the promised dinner.

    To top it off he had thoughtfully remembered to pack none-work clothes for the next day and my hair straighteners and fave trainers. x

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  • Tina Teaspoon
    Beginner May 2011
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    I think I said something along the lines of "Are you joking?!" and then swiftly followed that with "Get up, you doofus". Somewhere in there I must have said yes ?

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    Beginner March 2012
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    Mine was in Egypt, He had told me he had 2 failed attemps beforehand:

    1st attempt we went stargazing in the desert and there was so many people around and we were stuck by some smelly toliets he really didnt want to do it there and was to embarresed with everyone around.

    2nd attempt we went up the a a little mountain which was lovely it had a little waterfall and you could watch a show which was on below us and have a few drinks, but it was very high and I walked down a few steps and tripped and nearly fell about 100ft as there isnt any railings so i managed to kinda gain my control by grabbing a lampshade and some man grabbing my arm, needless to say I was very shaken and my H2b just looked round and walked off I don't think he relized what had happenend but I thought he had seen it nearly happena and went mad at him and said he was selfish for not trying to help me!! I then said we are going home and stormed off lol, I didnt know he was going to propose.

    3rd time lucky, we was in our hotel room and talking about marriage and I said I didnt care if he ever done where it was. and then decided I would go for alittle nap to which he was fumbling around in his wardrobe, then came back in and layed on the bed "I said what are u doing" as he was fidgeting he had hid the ring in his trousers so I wouldn't see it. anyway he then said wake up even though I wasnt actulley asleep yet and then said "will you marry me" Well I sat up and snatched the box from he and was like really is this an engagement ring (stupid question I know wasnt thinking straight) I then went to put it on after crying and saying yes, to then say no wait you have to put it on and gave it back to him to put on my finger. So im still sitting there crying and he goes"why are u crying for" well I didnt stop for the rest of the day haha. I did ask him why he didnt get on 1 knee the next day and he replied beacuse the floor was dirty!!

    But after all the effort he went to I thought it was perfect Smiley smile

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  • MrsKeating2B
    Beginner April 2011
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    AWW! love this!

    well.. even tho we had been together 5 years.. I was only 19 going on 20.. so i had nooooo ideas whatsoever!!!

    It was our "anniversary" so as usual he booked a table for a romantic meal, which happened to be quite far away in the town where we met.. (still had no idea)..

    we arrived and had a lovely meal.. walking back to the car he stopped and nearly pulled my arm off dropping to the floor.. (i thought he'd passed out!) lol He then said something aliong the lines of how much he loves me ect.. and pulled out a huuuuge beautiful ring and said will you marry me.. My answer.. " oh my god.. get up ur knees are wet now!!"... (i think it was the shock haha).. I eventually said yes and cried loads..

    he later told me it was the exact spot we met but i had forgot (woops!)... He then said i needed to go home and pack but wouldnt tell me why.. so i did and spent the journey ringing everyone i knew..

    We eventually arrive at the most amazing hotel and i was lead to the honeymoon suite where i was greeted with more flowers than a florist and champagne on ice..

    this was from the most unromantic guy ever.. so to me it was AMAZING!! Smiley smile x

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  • fizzypop
    Beginner July 2011
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    These stories are lifting my mood, they're all lovely ?

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    Beginner August 2011
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    Last xmas day was the 1st xmas day just us and the kids (no dragging ourselves round all day to give the relatives their fair dose of our kids!!) so we all got back into our pj's after dinner and were watching dr who (or something like that!) eating cheese and drinking wine, I got up to get another bottle and he said oh before you do that there is one thing........(me still stuffing cheese in my mouth) "will you marry me" he looked so nervous and pulled a ring out of his SOCK!!! (i kept having a go at him for scratching his foot but he'd been checking it was still in there!!)

    i said "are you winding me up?" he said no, i said "are you sure this isnt a joke" then my 9yr old daughter said "oh my god mum he is asking you to marry him-now you can stop going on at me about it!!!just say yes"

    so of course I said yes of course i will, and me and my daughter were dancing around the room, hugging my oh and my son who was 18months old just sat there getting covered in chocolate not batting an eyelid!!

    then my oh went to get the 'wine' but got the champers out instead.....

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  • lauren700
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    OMG what a fab thread!!! Cant believe I've only just got in on it!!!!

    My H2B told me he had bought me a present which I obviously at once demanded from him, he told me however it wasnt something that he could really put in my hands and I had to guess. After ALOT of time and ALOT of help I 'guessed' he'd bought me a website! (strange I know!) so then I had to guess the address ...

    laurenisfab.co.uk?

    laurenisgreat.co.uk?

    queenlauren.co.uk???

    laurensurname.co.uk???

    laurenH2Bfirst name.co.uk???

    H2B: Your close!

    at this point i was dying!!!!

    laurenmyfuturesurname.co.uk

    then this website popped up with my fave picture of us and it said:


    and so i clicked ......


    welll i just died!!!!

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