It’s a bit of a long post I apologise but I have no idea what to do and I get married in 5 weeks! I went to a bridal shop almost a year ago I had an idea of what I wanted and found a dress which was almost perfect. The shop do fully customisable bespoke dresses to your exact measurements. I picked the dress with the full lace top she pinned it in to show me but I didn’t like the neckline. I asked for the lace top to be removed, for it to just have the bodice and for the sleeves to come from there so she found another dress with that style of bodice but without the lace, pinned some sleeves to it to show how it would look and I loved it. Added some pearls down the back and a few other bits and made it my own.
It arrived in January and seeing it hung up I was in awe, it was perfect I tried it on and it just didn’t fit. It’s like the whole top half is too high up, the waist is on my ribs rather than my waist and it was 3” too big across that bit, I know from my own clothes I haven’t changed shape perhaps a little heavier if anything with it being just after Christmas but across the top it’s as though there’s a tight band pushing the top of my chest down it was really uncomfortable. You can see the dint on the photos where it’s digging in. She point blank said the waist can’t be lowered and it’d look different once it was taken in, I left really dejected I’ve paid £2,000 for a made to measure dress that isn’t what I ordered and doesn’t fit. I rang back when I got home, I was so upset and she was like come back we will sort it so I did. Said they would add stiffer boning and cups and it would be fine then booked me in to come back in 2 weeks then cancelled that so today was booked in originally to have been my final fitting but it’s worse than my first. It’s still too tight across the top of my cleavage and adding the padding makes it worse as I’m being squeezed from below and above now to the point it’s painful. I mentioned the whole tops the wrong shaped neckline too. She was going to let it out at the side but due to the way the sleeves are joined I explained how this wouldn’t work. She agreed and unpicked the sleeves and it’s still fitting wrong. Not sure if it’s the darts or cut but it doesn’t sit like it should. They’ll move the belt down an inch and try to hide the waist seam but then I’ve got layers of fabric where I want to be cinched in. I’ve got an hour glass figure which I wanted to show off and it’s giving me no shape and I actually cried during my appointment when trying it on. I’ve been told to come back in 2 weeks but That leaves me 3 weeks then if it’s not right I don’t know what I will do 😞
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