Hi everyone! I have 5 bridesmaids in total (2 friends, my sister, niece and daughter). I have quite a strained relationship with my sister recently as she has fell out with a lot of people in the family for really petty and stupid reasons. I also work a lot so I have not seen much of her in recent months due to working loads of extra hours to pay for the wedding.
At the start of the year when my sister was given the bridesmaid role she was interested in certain aspects of the wedding but was not interested in a lot of things too. She seemed to only be interested in things that directly affected her like for example what dress colour she would be wearing. Things like decorations, colour schemes, general planning and venue she was not interested in.
I was not going to have a MOH but my best friend has been so much help. She's interested, gives her opinion and I speak to her every day. So I gave her that role. My sister found out about this a few weeks later and was absolutely furious that she was not maid of honour. I was shocked that she was actually saying it! I explained i have hardly spoken to her lately and I feel like she isn't interested. She just kicked up a massive fuss and this was in front of quite a few people so quite embarrassing. I actually feel like she's lucky to be a bridesmaid. I wouldn't take that role away from her but I was upset by her lack of gratitude.
Just really don't know what to make of this. Have any other brides had silly dramas like this? My sister is 31 by the way x
