Bridesmaid drama

Sorry to hear this. Are you sure you want these two as bridesmaids? They don’t sound very supportive of your decisions. I think it would be unreasonable and rude of them to change for the reception. The evening do would be more appropriate but not the wedding breakfast.

View quoted message Honestly the fact that they aren't bothered hurts me because one is his sister and one is mine. I went to his sisters hen whilst I was 8 months pregnant and she's been my friend since starting primary school. I was hurt by the hen but the last straw was yesterday when she asked if she could get changed at the reception.

Seriously who do these people think they are? I have been a bridesmaid only a couple of times (once for my sister) and neither dress was what I would have chosen really but I wouldn't dream of asking to get changed! It is just not the done thing, if you cannot wear something for a few hours then you need to have a word with yourself. I would put my foot down and say no you cannot get changed until the evening reception as it is my day and that is what I want. If they refuse then remove them from their duties, sorry but they are being rude.

Why do bridesmaids always think its about them well not all but some i think you need to put your foot down in a nice way and explain your getting married not them x💗

I’m so sorry you’re going through this—this stress is the last thing you need after waiting 14 years for your wedding! It’s totally okay to let bridesmaids pick comfy same-tone dresses, don’t force feuding ones to get along, your joy matters most. Hen party size doesn’t define fun. Ditch the rose-tinted stress, check versatile bridesmaid dresses at https://www.azazie.com/all/bridesmaid-dresses, your big day deserves all the happiness

I’m so sorry you’re going through this—this stress is the last thing you need after waiting 14 years for your wedding! It’s totally okay to let bridesmaids pick comfy same-tone dresses, don’t force feuding ones to get along, your joy matters most. Hen party size doesn’t define fun. Ditch the rose-tinted stress, check versatile bridesmaid dresses at https://www.azazie.com/gb/all/bridesmaid-dresses , your big day deserves all the happiness