This is round three of trying to get married (thanks Covid!) and their second time to organise it. There was a change of bridesmaid as sadly there was a disagreement with one of them and not heard from her since (unrelated to wedding). My other friend stepped in and asked what needed to be done. I said just turn up on the day and help organise the hen do as she knew the previous BM made no effort at all.
The other BM is always on the back foot as she’s so busy. She had always said she wants to organise my hen do but reality is she’s not that organised.
I messaged them yesterday to say I will start organising it as aware time is getting on and that did seem to kick their arses into gear and now they’re organising a zoom call this week to discuss.
I just feel sad that I’ve been forgotten, earlier this year we lost our baby at 13 wks pregnant and I was heartbroken which they knew. I just wanted I guess to be made feel special after a crappy time. I totally appreciate everyone is busy in life but just don’t have any enthusiasm around it now
