Bridezilla

I think that depends on the history/context of the situation. If she’s been difficult and argumentative, winding people up and the like, then no, you’re not being a bridezilla. If, however, this isn’t the case, then... you might be turning into a bridezilla... but I’m not sure anyone could say yes or no just based on the information you’ve given so far.

View quoted message Yeah she’s being really argumentative about it coursing fallen outs and the fact she didn’t even come to look at dresses and all that x

Does she have a specific objection to the style you want or is she just being generally difficult?

It might be that she feels uncomfortable in the kind of dress you want her to wear - I opted out of being one friend's bridesmaid when I saw the dress styles she wanted, as they were way too revealing for me!

Or - she might have been enthusiastic at the time, but is maybe feeling overwhelmed by it now, especially if she's not a very confident person - in which case, asking her if she still wants to be bridesmaid might giver her a graceful way of dropping out.

View quoted message She’s just being plain difficult x

Hmmm… well I wouldn't say you are a bridezilla if you are paying for the dresses and she didn't bother to look at them with you. If she had the chance to give input and didn’t, then she can’t really complain about what you have chosen

View quoted message Only thing she’s having to pay for is shoes pretty much oh and hair and makeup xx

No ur not at all if she couldnt be bothered to even come dress shopping with u iv let my bridesmaids pick there own dresses for this reason so theres no arguments as long as there the colour theme im going with.

My sister is my maid of honour and she doesn't like anything I've picked from the venue, the cars, the reception, the colour scheme and that's fine it isn't her wedding it's mine.


What I have said to her is she can pick her own dress, as long as it matches my colour scheme.
If she doesn't like it she doesn't have to attend it's my wedding and it's our personalities I need to put out there not hers.
Just do you

I think you have every right to tell her too f-off its your wedding not hers and if she couldnt even be there to look at dresses and is causing fall outs between others then you have done the right thing x💗

View quoted message I am doing already compromised on the hair with her x

View quoted message Thanks hun needed that x

View quoted message Anytime im here to chat when ever just remember its about you and partner getting married not what she wants x💗

View quoted message Thanks so much x

I would say that’s fair play to you if she’s being difficult and causing you stress. Plus, she wasn’t there when choosing the dress so has to accept your decision.


As a few of comments have previously mentioned, don’t forget that it’s your wedding day not hers and she’s acting like a Bride(smaid)zilla not you!
Check out a series on ITVBe if you want to see actual Bridezillas. I stumbled across it last night as it’s called Bridezillas, it’s an Americanshow and completely OTT, hilarious! 🙈😂

View quoted message I have watched this some of them are shocking good one to watch x💗

View quoted message For sure! 😲 😳 😂 x

View quoted message I think i will turn in to one if i cant find my dress x😭

View quoted message Oh no, sending positive vibes. The perfect dress is out there for you 🤞🏼☺️ Xx