Can't decide between these 2 shoes

First ones! I might be biased though as I have a bit of a pearl theme!

If I was you I would go with what will be more comfy. I'm wearing trainers purely because I don't do well in heels and don't want to be thinking about my feet all day 🤣 Both shoes are very pretty but I'm a sucker for lace ballet slippers!

View quoted message Oh ok yeah I might go for them as I've had a few irl friends suggest them as well

View quoted message Oh ok yeah I understand going for comfort, oh ok that sounds like a smart idea, oh ok yeah I'm probably going to go for them

Both gorgeous, I would try on with your dress and make sure they style matches your dress and theme. whichever you go for make sure you wear them in in the months leading up top the wedding, I currently put mine on an hour a day to do the hoovering and tidying up, cover them with big socks so they don't get dirty and by the big day they will be comfortable an less likely to rub or cause pains

View quoted message Oh ok yeah I'm going both dress and shoe shopping this weekend so whenever I can will wear the shoes at home from next week and oh ok thanks for the advice I really appreciate it

First pair definitely!

View quoted message Oh ok, as I'm curious could you elaborate on why please

View quoted message Significantly prettier in my opinion, plus they look a bit different and unique. I’ve seen loads of shoes like the second pair online everywhere. Also, they look like flats which seem more practical.

View quoted message Oh ok thanks so much and yeah they are ballet flats as heels and ballet flats are the only womens shoes i wear as a guy, yeah I went a little different compared to most shoes with them

I think its what feels comfortable on you but i do like the second pair xx god luck with your decision 💗

View quoted message Oh ok yeah I understand and oh ok as I'm curious could you say why you like the second pair please

View quoted message The second pair look like the heel is thicker compared to the first which i think would be better when walking x💗

View quoted message Oh ok yeah they are as the first pair is a pair of ballet flats

I'm not the best to advise here as, unlike the sensible commenters I always go for style over comfort! However, whatever you choose, make sure you can keep them on all day even if they pinch as I'm not sure that kicking them off and discarding them at the edge of the dance floor fits in with the look of beautiful graceful poise these shoes indicate you are going for!

View quoted message Oh ok thanks for your advice, oh ok yeah I tend to do that alot, oh ok yeah I understand and agree

Oh ok yeah I was thinking of doing that actually and oh ok as I'm very curious what two do you have and why the pearl one?

Oh ok yeah I love comfort more as well, aww that's so nice and a great idea, I should get my husband to be's last name on the shoes I pick and that makes sense for if I get both

Oh yeah they do I was looking at them last night actually and oh ok that makes sense and yeah as my sister knew this was going to be my first time wearing womens shoes in front of most of my family as a man she was really eager about getting me so.e nice shoes for the day lol

Aww thanks so so much that means alot, yeah I will have a look, yeah I tried to wear heels to work for ages but was so bad I switched to wearing ballet flats with my work dresses instead, haha yeah if I choose heels I'll definitely bring flats as a backup

Absolutely love the first pair.


Where are they from?
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View quoted message This is the link to the shoes https://www.etsy.com/au/listing/674495312/white-crochet-lace-pointy-toe-flats?variation1=1177069196

I like the pearl pumps as they look special. Will the shoes be seen under the dress?
The heels are nice but just think about how comfy they'll be for the whole day.
Maybe heels for one part and pumps for the other?.I'd go with what is comfortable for you, end of the day both shoes are nice and look pretty but it's what goes with the dress best and most importantly comfort. It's your day, do you want blisters or achey feet? Go with what suits your feet best.