Covid worries

Hi hun i think what ypur feeling is perfectly normal all you can do is try and relax i know its easier said that done but there us nothing you can do besides being careful xx💗

View quoted message I know! Thanks for your reply and I am trying to stay calm about it. I have consoled myself with deciding we can still do a zoom or FaceTime for someone important if they can’t make it. As long as it’s not the wedding party I suppose!

I feel your pain - we got married 10 days ago and the whole build up was overshadowed by covid. My dad actually had it and only just tested negative in time so it was touch and go as to whether he could make it. In the end though - we didn’t have a single covid drop out (and no one caught it at our wedding either!)
All you can do is hope for the best. Fact is that it’s around and statistically someone will have it but few people are testing and most have vaccine/recent infection which provides protection - it is also significantly less serious than it was. My husband (!) was like your FH but being told there is nothing you can do and not to worry doesn’t stop the worry! All I can say is that you will have an amazing day whatever and just try not to let the spectre of covid get in the way of that (also, I’d actually forgotten how freaked out I was before hand until your post resonated so strongly with me!). Good luck - and vent away (I know it helps me!!) x

View quoted message I think thats all you can do its hard with covid coming back around again x💗

My wedding is this Saturday and so far we've had one dropout, so it's not too bad. My entire immediate family caught it last week, which was super stressful, but they've recovered. Best to not think about it at all if you can, try and do something nice to take your mind off it

I totally understand your worries. I think we just have to accept that it could happen. We have made the decision to not go to crowded places and work from home for the week before our wedding to slightly reduce our risk of catching covid. The day will be special even if it isn’t 100% as planned. Enjoy!

View quoted message Yes I’m lucky I can work from home so will do that for the next two weeks. My FH cant though and I have two teenagers still in school so it’s not going to be easy to avoid all people. I just hope no one “important” is poorly and by that I mean wedding party and his mum. Stressful 😬

View quoted message Hi hun how are you feeling not long to go now are you staying calm x💗

View quoted message Aww thanks for asking! I’m not too bad at the moment, I know it’s a bit naughty but I’ve told all my guests not to test and I don’t wanna know! I am now working at home again but stressing a bit as FH goes out to work and kids still in school! Thankfully kids finish tomo so we have a clear week until the wedding.
Thanks for checking up!

View quoted message I think thats the best way for you at the end of the day we get told we have to live with it they stop the tests unless you buy one with me i have to test every week i still wear my mask when out but thats because of my job and yes the teenagers finish tomorrow my 15 son cant wait to finish bet you will be glad that its not long to go and will be worth it x💗

View quoted message Hi hun not long hows it going x💗

View quoted message I’m ok so far thanks for asking. No cancellations from guests yet but I’m still nervous! Finished work today which was nice and they gave us some money for our wedding which was lovely. Fingers crossed for next few days and at least it’s cooler!

View quoted message Thats nice of them i know the heat ive been in work windows closed blinds shut fans on feel sorry for my patients what you planning on doing till big day x💗

View quoted message I’ve got to sort out the favours today and steam one of the BM dresses and his shirt! Get all the stuff ready to take to the venue tomo and my parents arrive tomo so need to make up my spare room for them. Glad it’s cooler but I’ve not been sleeping that well as I wake and start thinking too much!

View quoted message You bound to feel like that and the weather hasnt helped either xx Im going to wish you both am amazing day now as you will be busy for the next few days so a BIG CONGRATULATIONS to you both hope you have an amaxing day x💗

View quoted message All the best for your wedding day xx💗23 here it comes not long

View quoted message Wishing you both the best you done it CONGRATULATIONS to you both x💗