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Mellow_Yellow
Beginner May 2012

Did you get engaged on a special day?

Mellow_Yellow, 6 October, 2011 at 17:27

Posted on Planning 60

Obviously the day you get engaged is special...but was it special before it was your engagement day? Ours was a random day on holiday, but my mum and two cousins were engaged on Christmas, I've heard of a few people getting engaged on Valentine's Day or their Birthday, also a guy I know just...

Obviously the day you get engaged is special...but was it special before it was your engagement day?

Ours was a random day on holiday, but my mum and two cousins were engaged on Christmas, I've heard of a few people getting engaged on Valentine's Day or their Birthday, also a guy I know just proposed to his (now) fiancee on their daughter's first birthday.

So, there you have it - was your engagement day a special day to begin with, or just a plain old ordinary Tuesday or whatever?

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  • mrs lewis 2b
    Beginner October 2012
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    OH popped the question on my 30th birthday.

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  • caweena
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    Ours was just a day... only special because I don't often get a Saturday night off and we're able to go out together. I managed to drag him away from his mates for a drink just the two of us and he responded to my nagging by proposing!

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  • caweena
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    Ours was just a day... only special because I don't often get a Saturday night off and we're able to go out together. I managed to drag him away from his mates for a drink just the two of us and he responded to my nagging by proposing!

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  • Recycledbride
    Beginner June 2012
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    Surprise trip to Paris..midnight Valentine's Eve, Eiffel Tower, pink diamond engagement ring.....can't believe it's been 6 years!

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  • R
    Beginner April 2013
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    My OH proposed on my birthday- completley out of the blue as he has always said that a bit of paper doesn't make a difference etc etc so I must have softened him along the way!

    I should have known something was up when I got home and the house was clean. He told me not to go in the spare room and I told him that it was ok I knew he was getting me tyres for the car for my birthday present and that we had to be practical now that we had a mortgage to pay!

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  • Nenas
    Beginner March 2012
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    Not a special day, just a random Saturday, but it was a special place. Went back to the place we met and where our love blossomed (?) and he proposed at the most perfect place. We'd never talked about where he'd do it, but it was exactly where i'd wanted it to be.

    He gave some thought to the date he would propose, but not based on anything special. In fact, he said he picked the day specifically because it wasn't the same day as anything else so that we could celebrate it on its own merit in the future, which i thought was sweet Smiley smile

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  • Hollie1984
    Beginner July 2012
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    Christmas Eve, under the christmas tree ?

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  • Flowmojo
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    Nope...Mr F knew i woudlnt want it to be a special date...not christmas, or valentines day or my birthday or an anniversary, cos thats when itd be expected so he picked ther first night of our holiday last year..and yes, very unexpected!

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  • Charlie-Lou
    Beginner June 2012
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    Ours was on my OH's birthday, on a hot air balloon in Paris! Smiley smile

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  • Storky
    Beginner May 2011
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    Ours was a Thursday evening. Mr CB had always said he'd propose when I was least expecting it and on a day we'd make our own as Christmas Day, Valentine's Day proposals seem twee to him.

    On one knee, in a puddle.

    Beautiful.

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  • T
    Beginner
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    On a Wednesday evening in September. He was naked after just getting out of the bath. Very unexpected, very random and I would never want to change the way it happened.

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  • The Little Jewellery Box
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    On my birthday on a beach in Barbados! Waited years and I thought it'd never happen.... bless him. Took his time but it was worth it!!! :-)

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  • charlottelucy
    Beginner August 2012
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    On my birthday. He wisked me away to Devon for the weekend and gave me all my presents in the morning then rushed off and said I have one more and to close my eyes, when I was allowed to open them he was there on one knee Smiley smile x

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  • Browny
    Beginner June 2011
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    On April Fools Day 2010!

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  • katielou87
    Beginner April 2012
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    Ours was a normal Sunday after noon!

    My OH knows how close to my family I am and we were having a family BBQ as my brother worked abroad and he was back for a week.

    He managed to get my ring ordered and delivered in time for the BBQ. He kept nipping inside the house and at first I was following him to ask what he was doing - checking the golf score was the answer. Then he came out, the music got switched off and down onto one knee he went! hehe.. perfect engagement for me Smiley laugh and because he told my Mum she obviously had her camera ready so we have some great pics as a memory!! xx

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  • Mrs Mack
    Beginner May 2012
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    Not a special day no, we had gone away for an overnight stay to have a meal and go to a show. He asked me at night,lying in bed and then on the sunday we went and I picked my own ring.....not a very romantic story to tell the grandkids but hey ho.

    I have some other nice stories tho:

    My cousin got engaged on Xmas Eve

    My other cousin propose to his g/f on Xmas morning, after she had opened all her pressies he goes...oh forgot about this one

    And my friend's fiance got down on one knee as the bell's were chiming on new years eve......my personal fave that one!

    I would personally have been mortified if my fiance got down on one knee - we are just not that kind of couple!!!! haha

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  • C
    Beginner June 2012
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    I'm still waiting for a proposal and a ring - all I've had so far is "if you are wanting to get Married you'd best ring the Vicar and get something booked!" My ring is in the bottom drawer - I've managed not to peek and now I'm waiting for a gran proposal!

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  • KatalinaNastyCough
    Beginner November 2011
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    We got engaged on Valentines Day this year after just about 5 years together. We have our own house and a beautiful daughter, and i really wasn't expecting it, even though i spent most of lunchtime at work play sulking because I hadn't got a ring for Valentines day! Little did I know when I got home in my Valentines card he'd written... "to my future wife..", so I asked if that was a proposal, he said "aye" and the rest is history!

    No bended knee but it was very Mr Nasty Cough and I can't wait to be his wife in 35 days eeek

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  • *JLS*
    Beginner July 2012
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    Ours was on Christmas Day too and it was unexpected because I thought it was never going to happen :0) Our wedding will be on our 10 year and one day anniversary!!

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  • Knees
    VIP August 2012
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    Although he didn't realise it at the time, it was my parents' 30th anniversary. Other than that, no particular significance.

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  • saspip
    Beginner May 2012
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    Ours was on my 27th birthday last year (and it's my 28th today - where has the year gone?!) We'd just come back from a trip of a lifetime driving across America where I half thought he was going to do it. When it didn't happen I thought I still had years to wait so it was a total surprise on the day.

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  • Vee Tee
    Beginner April 2012
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    The day before me!!! OH got the ring that day and was going to do it then as he couldn't wait but I was tired after work and went for anap before going out to my 2nd job so he thought it was a bad time. It was a bad time cos I couldn't even have told myparents first so glad he waited til the 2nd Smiley smile

    For this reason I won't be making any jokes about april fools...lol

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  • SoontobeMrsB
    Beginner October 2011
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    Brilliant!

    Took his time but eventually got down on one knee on our 10th anniversary of being together.

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  • celticgoddess
    Beginner March 2012
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    I proposed to my OH on his 40th birthday in January this year. The ring was his 40th present. One of the most nerve wracking things i have ever done!

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  • kerrylou89
    Beginner August 2011
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    Christmas day we got enagaged Smiley smile married on our anniversary Smiley smile

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  • ebony_rose
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    We didn't technically get engaged, just decided we wanted to get married.

    Can't remember what day we decided that on...

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