So when I got engaged my friend over in America asked if she could be bridesmaid. I didn’t know what to say at the time! Now I’ve thought about it, I just want my two young nieces to be bridesmaids. How the hell do I tell her without going mad?? I don’t want to upset her but she’s expecting me to pay for everything and I’ve got other friends who I’d have to ask as well!
I’ve also got my fiancés dad trying to get involved. His parents are spilt up, and at first he was saying he’s not coming if his mother is going to be there! (He’s not a nice man). Now he’s got another girlfriend and they’ve sorted flowers and ribbon out for the car, even though I’ve already said my cousin is a florist and it’s sorted! I suppose I just needed a rant and advice on how to stop upsetting people and how to stop people getting involved 😡
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