Hi all
I'm feeling quite stressed and wondered if anyone could offer me some wisdom. It's just a couple of days before the wedding and 10 people have dropped out at £55 per head. Three different couples have have said that their childcare are having to isolate but they are still managing to go to work etc. Two other individuals have said they don't feel comfortable attending now that the end of lockdown has been delayed. I guess that is fair enough if genuine. The rest have just said they can't make it and to have a great day ...
My fiancé has fallen out with some of the guests who have let us down. I told them that it's beyond our control and we're getting on each others nerves. We've tried to find people to fill the spots but their either offended and feel like they are second choices, or do not want to attend a wedding with masks and no dancing etc.
I had an injury at work several weeks ago and I am under physiotherapy. Fortunately I am now much better but I got a flat tyre en route to an appointment and have had to cancel the appointment at short notice so they do not want to see me again. I've previously had to rearrange due to work not being flexible (they were allowing me time off but if someone calls in sick and they cannot cover then I have to rearrange).
Obviously restrictions are still in place as the road map out of lock down has been delayed which is a bummer.
I don't know how flexible the venue can be with table plans at such short notice and I feel so unprepared.
I also forgot to make arrangements for a meal for the photographer and their assistant.
We just want everyone involved to have a wonderful time and make some lovely memories.
Has anyone been through this?