I've had a rubbish evening.
My hubby2b's sister told their mum that she won't come to the wedding if another relative will be invited. His mum was in floods of tears on the phone begging him to not invite this person. We've stood our ground and said that everyone from both our families will be invited without exception.
He then rang his sister to tell her that we won't be told who we can invite. She said she'd have to think about whether she'll come! And that she doesnt feel important as a sister, and that we've chosen to invite someone despite her feelings about it. I chose her and her daughter as my bridesmaids because I wanted to involve his family seeing as I'm becoming a part of it but right now I really don't want her to be, I feel so hurt that she would miss her little brother's biggest day just because someone she doesn't like is there. Plus I feel really hurt that she doesn't feel her feelings have been taken into account even though I've given her and her daughter a huge role to play on the day!
