Fiancé saw my wedding dress! - Heartbroken

I understand completely. My fiance keeps asking to actually see my dress.


I would say, try not to be too disheartened. As it's only the bottom. I'm sure he will be spending so much of the day looking at your beautiful face rather than the bottom of the dress.
Xx

Wow what a totally random chain of events. But when you say ---

He can't see the whole dress but he can see that its ***plain, A-line ***and ***floaty **and a ***midi** length.

I can tell you that he wont see any of that at all - all "HE" saw was a wedding dress and couldn't pick it out in a line up if he tried. And when he sees the dress IN FULL it will look totally different to what he thought he saw, this time he will be seeing the top half as well and your face and hair, also depending on how far away your wedding is he wont even remember what he thought the picture showed.

However it would be an idea to delete the picture off his phone in case he is tempted to keep having a look.

I'd have been heartbroken too but actually, Bill is absolutely right! I'd definitely be making sure it's deleted from his phone though and be pretty firm about not being included in the speeches if it upsets you.

Good luck for your day and I hope you feel a bit better about it all x

Unfortunately, I can't delete the image, it's just part of the tracking details so unless he deletes the whole app that can't happen.

He definitely does know its midi length, or should I say short and not floor length. as that was very obvious as you can see my legs and feet. But he is one for remembering my outfits and stuff, which is helpful when i don't know what to wear but not with this one!

Oh poor you, I can imagine your upset, i personally would complain to the company involved, it wont change things but they should have asked about the photo, as lets be honest how often does someone open the door in a wedding dress so should have thought, hang on this is not normal! I know it is hard but please try not to worry, he has seen a bit of fabric on a photo, like a sneak peek, the whole look will be complete on the day and will look different as a photo doesn't pick up details and colours as well. Hope you feel better about it in a few days, I am sure your H2B will have forgotten he saw it in due course and you can WOW him on the day showing your dress in its full glory X

Hi any decisions on what dress your going to wear are you sticking to your original one or going for a new one agsin one that fiance hasnt seen x💗

As I am already selling one dress here on Still White I don't want the stress of selling another. There was one last dress that I never got to try on (a high-street style one) that is now in stock, so I have ordered it to try, if I like it I think I will go with that one, and dye the wedding dress he has seen so I can still keep it, but it won't be my wedding dress.
If I don't like it then I'll have to stick with the dress and try force myself to not feel so disheartened by it

I've had such a hard time with wedding dress shopping, I don't like how wedding dresses look on me, I don't do gowns, floor-length dresses, I don't do ball gowns or something tight to skin and anything that's blingy or overly detailed, and I think all the bridal shops here just sell that kind of dress and any plain ones they have in just end up making me look pregnant! But it's hard to shop the high-street style dresses as they're only ever in stock online - and all of my family and bridesmaid prefer the proper wedding dresses. I've ended up resorting to shopping online and trying on dresses alone in my bedroom to make my decisions because everyone else just pushes their opinions on me and confuses me. (It's how I ended up with the first dress!) So I've not told anyone about this 3rd one and I'll make my decision and try to move on

I know exactly how you feel how about trying to find a dress that doesnt make you look pregnant x But remember its you who is getting married not them and you do want that special moment of him seeing the dress for the first time when you walk down to him i wish i could help you pick that dress and not have to feel like you not picking the right one and hide in your room i have picked a dress with out telling my family plus they are not invited also friends arent. Please go with your own heart and mind not anyone elses x💗

I will do thank you for the advice! I just wish I could sell the first one 😂 as the other is a high-street dress I know I can dye it and wear it again but I can’t do that will a full ball gown wedding dress! No one tells you how hard it is to have dress regret

Hi just checking in to see how things are going with dress x💗