Hello all,
I am starting to lose the plot. My FMIL told my Fiance that he MUST include his god children in our wedding.
Her favourite line at the moment is "etiquette states"My Fiance's god children belong to his 2 cousins. 1 boy who isn't very easy to get along with. At present he is 15 and takes a football EVERYWHERE with him, doesn't like wearing formal wear and is very shy. I was very clear with her that if he doesn't comply on the day my father will upset him ( my father is a captain in the army 🙈)She then replied - well his grandmother is expecting it. The other god child is a girl who is his mother's great neice.Right at the start of this process her sister said on She's so excited she actually said finally I will get to be a bridesmaid.Erm.....no she won't. I was very clear with that. Then it was like well-being a flower girl. She will be 15 by the time we get married.When I explained to FMIL and her sister I have my own god children( best friend/ maid of honours kids) who are young enough to do the role I was greeted with "oh but there not family"This made me sooo angry especially as those girls are my family. I don't want either teen to honest 😔 I have my bridal party which consists of ADULTS. Everyone Is now saying I'm being unreasonable.
My FMIL has already dropped 2 other grenades.1st she wanted us to have a hurried wedding because unfortunately my FFIL is very unwell so he wont be at our wedding in 2 years time. She said I want him there so have a small wedding. It will be all 12 of his family and all I get is my mum, dad, brother and nan. Which is hilarious when my family is 100% bigger than his. She then said "then you can go about your life and in 2 years have a big blessing" i wasnt happy at all So I said no. To be fair my fiancé said no too. 2. She offered us money but demanded we invite certain members of her family otherwise we can't have the money. I told her she could keep it. It's either a gift for her son or its not. Love is unconditional doesn't come with strings. She back tracked and said she wanted us to have it. I said nah......Shes now annoyed.
I'm fully ruthless but she's starting to really piss me off.
What do I do?
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