Hi I was just wondering for some advice?
Me and my partner are getting married in June 2023 so excited we’ve made a list of family members that we want to be there on our special day however there is a few family members we don’t want there however feel like we’re going to send them on save the date and then hope they don’t want to come because if we don’t invite them it will cause trouble .
Eg I have a step brother and sister who I don’t have a relationship but Inviting them as I know my step mum will question why her kids ( adults ) haven’t been invited but my mums new step kids have..
Also my dads dad ( don’t call him grandad ) I don’t really like him and also don’t have a relationship with him not seen him properly for over 15 years..
They have all only met my partner once in the nearly 10 years we’ve been together and I don’t like them.
I’m only inviting them to make the peace with my dad and step mum easier..
My parents have been divorced for 18 years so I’ve got to deal with them in the same room for the first time ever too.
Fingers crossed they won’t come then have one less thing to worry about 😀