Help! Surprise pregnancy!

Conratulations on this exiting news 💗 as for showing baby bump this depends on your body i have 3 children and my bump has been different evertime 2 i showed within 8 weeks and the other was 15 weeks so its a case of just waiting totally understand you keeping it quiet until you are 12 weeks its such a hard one with it being really fitted 💗 sorry i havent helped you much x💗

View quoted message Thank you!! It was a shock to be honest haha! If you don't mind me asking, how much were you showing at 8 weeks? Could i get away with pretending I'm just bloated or something lol x

View quoted message I was a size 16 with 1st one and was just showing a little bit but i felt uncomfotable with me being a size 16 you will get away with it and you could hide it at first with bouquet at the end of the night your guets will be to drunk to even notice you will pull it of hun dont worry just enjoy your exoiting news X Congratulations to you both such an exiting time xxx 💗

Congratulations! If this is your first pregnancy then at around 12 weeks it's very unlikely you will have a visible bump. However, because you won't be drinking alcohol then guests may suspect pregnancy for this reason x

View quoted message Thanks. Well luckily my drink of choice is vodka lemonade so when I'm drinking just lemonade no one will think any different! And for the toasts, my fiance said he will make sure the staff fill my glass with alcohol free fizz


Yes this is my first one (at 35 too, week) so I hope that I won't be showing so that we can it under wraps.

View quoted message I think you'll get away with it! I hope you do anyway x

I had a friend who was pregnant with her first at that stage at her wedding. She always shows super-early (she's never managed to get to 12 weeks without nearly everyone around her guessing because of her bump) but it wasn't noticeable at her wedding. She said she couldn't eat anything though, because she was already only just fitting into her dress!

Some people may guess but hopefully won't say anything.

Hi Charlotte,


Firstly a huge congratulations it's such wonderful news.I get you are concerned about showing. Every women and every pregnancy is different.For both my pregnancies I didn't show until about 16 weeks.I mean to me I looked pregnant but no one else knew. My first I was nearly 12 weeks pregnant and went to a wedding. Fooled everyone and wore my normal size dress . When I was 16 weeks pregnant with my second baby I went to a wedding and I wore a dress a size bigger. I think at ten weeks you will be okay 🙂. Try not to worry you will be stunning. Enjoy every minute of it all 😊Best of luck with everything