It is my hen do coming up in 3 weeks. When I originally set up the hen do whatsapp, my 2 best friends (one being the maid of honour) said they would arrange it. Great! I suggested that as half of the girls (I invited 12) are mums, that we should just keep it low key, maybe 1 night away in a city an hour away or something. They then removed me out of the group so I didn't see what they were planning. In the following weeks the maid of honour kept complaining that my other friend wasn't helping her with arrangements. I kept giving the other friend a nudge but she was useless... Maid of honour also kept complaining that some of the girls weren't paying the deposits. In the end the maid of honour decided it was too hard for her so she told me what they had planned and that I now needed to take over because she was sick of chasing deposits. We are going to Newcastle for 2 nights (a 3 hour drive away) which all the girls collectively chose. But I had to take over the hotel booking and transport booking as she didn't want to chase the money. Now 3 of the girls are complaining that 2 nights away is too long. Why all agree to go for 2 nights in the first place then? I even suggested one night, locally. They were the ones that chose 2 nights in a location further away. One girl is saying she is poorly so cant go (its 3 weeks away yet!) 2 others are saying 2 nights away is too long without their babies. Out of the 12 I invited, 8 were coming. But with these 3 now saying they don't want to go its just 5 of us. I know hen parties can be expensive, but I was the one that suggested a lowkey affair. Its not like we are all going to Spain for 4 nights with a private boat charter either is it? I am just disheartened that I have had to arrange everything which they chose, and now they are complaining saying they don't want to go. It's made me feel like crap. If we didn't lose all the money, I would honestly just cancel it. What fun is a hen party going to be with girls that don't even want to be there, complaining and pulling their faces all the time.... What should I do?
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