I really need some advice on how to tell my dad that I don't want him to walk me down the aisle at my wedding.
My parents divorced when I was very young and he's never really been a positive presence in my life. He is very intimidating and I've often been scared of him. Being how he is, he expects to be a part of things, when really, he has no right. He likes to do the big "I am", and likes to promote himself as the perfect father.
I'd rather walk down the aisle with my two bridesmaids (best friends) who know me better than anyone.
In addition, I personally don't agree with the whole 'giving her away' tradition. Women are no longer possessions to be given to a new owner. But how do I tell my dad this? I do want him there and to be a part of our special day, but how do I express how I feel without causing an argument or ill feeling?
Please help! Any advice or pointers would be massively appreciated. Thanks!
- Katie