How many Bridesmaids and Flower Girls??

Im having 4 adults and 1 flowergirl!

3 bridesmaids and 2 pageboys ?

Hi,

Am having x1 pageboy, x2 flower girls, x3 bridemaids (x2 adults, x1 15yr old).

3 adults, one Flowergirl.

2 bridesmaids, that sounds really pathetic now i say it. One of my nephews may be a ring bearer but depends on how he feels on the day (personally I dont like having them - but its an OH family tradition so going to have to)

''''SNAP'''''' i'm having the same as you, , , ,

I'm having my beautiful neices as bridesmaid and flower girl (10 & 2) and then my gorgeous twin nephews as page boys, who will then be 4! hhmmm seeing it written down is making me think i should have an older bridesmaid to help the younger ones walk down!

Thanks everyone! i asked beacuse even though i have chosen mine its been really playing in my mind!! i have4 flower girls because i have to young daughters and my partner has 2 nieces which we are very close to! so as our nieces are young we decided to ask their mum who i also am very good friends with. My sister is my moh

What is playing on my mind is that my 2 best friends who i have grown up with i havnt been able to ask as i thought that 4 adults and 4 lil ones would be 2 much.

what are you views on this?

I had 10 bridesmaids... I would not recommend this for my enemy; if I had any.

I'm having 3 BMs and 3 FGs. Hopefully the number won't grow any more!

I have asked both my daughters to be my bridesmaids, age 23 and 19. I never wanted little ones, but then my gorgeous granddaughter Lily was born and i am now having a flowergirl

I wouldnt say 4 big and 4 little would be too much, if you can afford it and its what youwould like - then go for it

I've got three adults (ages 26,25,17) and a flowergirl who will be 2 and a half.

We're having 3 adult BMs, SiL, Friend and SiL2B (27, 31 and 44), 2 pageboys (4 and 3) and 1 flowergirl (1) - (my niece and nephews)

Got 4 bridesmaids who's ages will be 16, 19, 26 and 27. Also will have an 8 year old page boy. Got no little girls amongst family/friends so no flowergirl

We're having 2 adult bridesmaids, junior bridesmaid (12) and a flower girl (6) and my 2 nephews as page boys. We were initially having a small wedding!

Jx

Hi

I am having 5 adults, 3 flowergirls and 2 pageboys, all family except my maid of honour who is my best friend...

Sarah

Hello

i am having 2 bms

then 3 flowergirls ( my 2 daughters and niece ) and one pageboy

we have a massive family so could have loads more but i prefer a smaller bridal party, its much cheaper lol

Im having 1 adult (my sister), 1 flowergirl (partners neice) and 1 pageboy (my little man).

I think it depends on how many guests you have.

IMO 4 bridesmaids and 20 guests would look a little odd. But 4 bridesmaids and a church full not s much.

We have 4 bridesmaids (was 5 but one is now not speaking to me), 2 flowergirls (our nieces), and a pageboy, our nephew. We also have my auntie, uncle, and brother acting as "ushers" to walk bridesmaids and flowergirls in. But we are expecting 150 guests to church so I don't think it will look out of place.

I'm having 5 adult bridesmaids, my sister, my 2 nieces and my 2 step daughters. My 2 sons are ushers.

Im having 5 Bridesmaids (My three sisters, sister in law and best friend), two flowergirls (My nieces) and my two boys as pageboys they will be 2 1/2 and 7! My eldest is doing a reading during the ceremony. x

I'm having 2 adult BMs - My sis and SIL2B. I didn't really want to extend into friends as BMs, as I wouldn't have been able to choose between them so would have ended up with like 6 BMs! Which would be too many for me (and the budget).

Would love to have a flower girl or page boy, but no close family or friends have children ☹️

I'm having two adult BMs (sister and best friend) and hopefully two flowergirls (OH's goddaughter who will be 6 and his niece who will be almost 3). However, we're getting married abroad and the parents haven't decided if they will bring the kids or leave them at home so that they can have a child-free holiday!

None, none, none, none and none.

Is brilliant - no tantrums!

Am having one adult BM (who has been my best friend since Uni days and is amazing, couldn't be more helpful. Possibly also having 1 flower girl (daughter of our closest mutual friend), and 1 page boy (OH's nephew). I say possibly as both our friend and OH's brother are separated from the children's mothers, (and BIL2B and his family live on Jersey), so it is sort of dependent on access arrangements. If we do have them, the girl will be 3 and the boy will be 3 1/2.

3 adult bridesmaids & one flowergirl

I've got 2, but one of them is my son and he complains very loudly if I call him a bridesmaid. He will be the Man of Honour, as you can only be a page boy if you're under 10 or at least shorter than the bride, and he's neither. The other one is my niece, who will also be taller than me by the time the wedding happens.

Oh and just to complete the set our best man is a lady (SIL2B) so she's a best person, and she is shorter than me.

We are having 4 flowergirls all of which are my neices, one pageboy (my nephew), and I have 4 adult bridesmaids, one is my sister, my cousin and my 2 best friends.

Well im having 6 adult brideamaids two flower girls, three paige boys!!

two sisters, 4 best friends, could never choose between them so had them all two flower girls as family as are all three paige boys oh and 6 ushers xxxxxxx

I think i am just having one adult bridesmaid ? (h2b's younger sister, will be 19 in 2012 for the wedding)

I have small family, other half has 10 cousins! ranging from 9 yrs to 18 yrs. So don't feel like we can ask some to be page boys/ ushers/ bridesmaids and not others.

Though i am now wondering if the font of the church will look a little empty?!

I wanted an army so i chose 4 adults bm's.. 4 ushers.. 2 fg's and a pageboy.. x

I'm having two adult bridemaids, one flower girl, two page boys and one mini usher.