Hi all,
First post on here!
Got engaged in May and me and the boy have loved the idea of eloping, just us two, somewhere special. We haven't decided when or where yet but already one issue cropping up.
My sister and some other family have said they would be upset/disappointed not to witness the occasion. We fully intend to have a party and do a cake cutting etc. afterwards to celebrate with friends and family - but we wanted the ceremony just for us.
My sister absolutely sobbed to me and made me feel so guilty because "I didn't want her there" when that's not the case - no one will be there, we want it just us two. Then scoffed at my idea of a party without any ceremonial part.
My parents have been supportive but underneath I know they took would love to be there.
How do I manage the guilt but also still do what we as a couple want?