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Jenna
Beginner August 2023 West Yorkshire

i don’t wear make up…

Jenna, 31 May, 2022 at 08:13 Posted on Beauty & Wellbeing 0 8
Hi,


I’m thinking ahead to our wedding in August 2023 and starting to worry about whether or not to wear make up. I don’t ever wear any make up other than brows, mascara and eyeliner. I have extremely sensitive skin, particularly around my lips and mouth, and so many products cause it to flare, even really natural and ‘approved’ products. I basically can’t put anything around my mouth.
I know that people say you *must* wear make up because of the photography - why is this? What is the actual reasoning behind it, is it just that it’s going to show every flaw on the photos?
I want to look natural and like myself. The only ever times I’ve worn full make up (very rare, could count on one hand), I’ve felt so uncomfortable and it just doesn’t suit me. Does anyone have any experience of not wearing make up for their wedding, or very minimal? I’ve read that you could get away with using just tinted moisturiser and concealer, has anyone done this? I’d be happy to wear lashes etc. on my eyes it’s just my full face I’m worried about - I don’t want a full face of make up but equally don’t want to look washed out!
Thanks in advanceJenna

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Latest activity by Lexie, 15 December, 2025 at 09:10
  • Laura
    Beginner April 2024 Cambridgeshire
    Laura ·
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    Hi!
    I am exactly like yourself, I have never wore makeup and anytime I did I felt uncomfortable and not myself. It just wasn't me.

    I didn't wear any at mine, and if I did my family probably would have wondered why! The point is - if you feel your most comfortable without any, don't wear any because you will look back and wonder why you wore any, worried about smudging it on your dress or any lipstick coming off when eating your food. You'll be constantly looking in the mirror or asking people if the mascara is ok or if you accidently wipe your face you will be very worried. This is what I didn't want! For those who have never wore it, it's an extra anxiety that you do not need on your day, but if you have years of experience with makeup then you know what sticks and what doesn't, so it's less of a worry.
    Be you, you are beautiful, be true to yourself in however you feel comfortable. Power to us girls who never wear makeup!!!!
    Congratulations on your wedding !!
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  • C
    VIP April 2022 Wiltshire
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    I am the same as you, hate the feeling of anything on my face, and rarely wear anything but a mouisturiser with a tint and mascara. The reason thet say to wear it is that the way the photos will pick up amy imperfaction in the skin will show, but it is entirely up to you. i did have make up and explained my worries to my artist and she was great in ensuring it weasnt heavy, but i had a natural look which just gave me a bit of a lift. Try and find a local MUA and have a chat, do a trial and see what you think, you may be surprised, or if you hate it then dont do it but is worth trying to see. Here is a pic of me on the day, it is very subtle but just gave me that little pop! good luck

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    Dedicated July 2022 Co Londonderry
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    I also don't wear makeup day to day because of eczema, however I am going to wear it on the day. I found a good makeup artist, did a trial and it looked great. Of course it's all dependent on my skin on the day.


    You don't have to wear make up for pictures, but it does help even out skin tone and hide any imperfections.

    I would suggest you at least try it to see if you'd like it- a good makeup artist will know how to make you feel great. Likewise, if you don't like it once you've tried it don't force yourself, you want to feel your best on the day Smiley smile
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    Genius July 2020 Monmouthshire
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    I don't wear makeup at all - ever - and I didn't wear any on my wedding day.

    I've heard numerous 'reasons' as to why you 'have' to wear makeup, none of which make any sense to me - I think it boils down to wanting to keep weddings as high cost as possible. These are the reasons I was given for 'needing' makeup:

    1) You will look washed out in your photos (no I didn't - and if I had done, it would have been a sign that I'd picked a poor photographer, not that I needed makeup. I've never looked 'washed out' in any of my other photos, so why would I start on my wedding day?)

    2) You will look terrible next to your female guests who will all be wearing makeup (since I never wear makeup, I must 'look terrible' all the time then - and anyway, it's not a competition. Even if I plastered my face with makeup several of our female guests would still be much better looking than I am, but my fiance chose to marry me not them!)

    3) You need to look your best for your fiance (who asked me to go out with him when I wasn't wearing makeup and who proposed to me when I wasn't wearing makeup. I haven't worn makeup the entire time he's known me, so why would I need to start on our wedding day?)

    4) It's selfish and inconsiderate not to put effort into looking your best for your guests. (If my friends are only going to care to come to my wedding if I'm wearing makeup then I should be finding myself some new friends!)

    I felt awesome on my wedding day because I felt like myself, which I wouldn't have done wearing makeup. I love our wedding photos. And the weird thing is, I've had compliments on the 'lovely natural makeup' I was wearing! I think because everyone assumes that all brides will wear makeup, people saw what they expected to see!!!

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  • Michelle
    VIP July 2026 Cheshire
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    I hate the stuff the h2bs have seen us without so what matters on the day you being yourself without it thats who they fell in love with even with all are flaws they still love us for us x💗
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  • Kimmie
    Beginner July 2024 Buckinghamshire
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    Hello!

    I’m a bride and I’m also a professional make up artist/model. You can do whatever makes you feel good! It’s not a must to wear Make Up however, it does makes a difference. These pictures/videos will last forever, so I think what they’re trying to say is that you would want to look your best on the day (to make sure when you look back on these photos, you get that same feeling).
    If you need any advice with make up, I’d love to keep in touch! These is my fortè, make up no make up look Smiley smile
    Kimmie x
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  • Briony
    Beginner September 2022 West Sussex
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    Love this 💜
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  • Lexie
    Rockstar December 2025 Jiangsu
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    You definitely don’t need full makeup—minimal is totally the way to go for you! The photo thing is just because flash can wash you out a bit, not that it’ll highlight every tiny flaw. Tinted moisturiser and a little concealer on red spots or dark circles work great, plus your usual brows, liner, mascara and lashes will give enough definition for photos without feeling heavy. So many brides skip full face stuff and look like glowing, natural versions of themselves—you’ll feel way better staying true to how you normally look.

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