In need of a bit of help...I recently got engaged and decided on 3 bridesmaids. One bridesmaid is my cousin, we'd talked about weddings a few times and she always stated that I would be her MOH/Chief Bridesmaid if she was to get married. Since I have got engaged she has tried to hint a few times that she's expecting to be my MOH. In fact a few comments she has made almost makes it feel like I've already asked her to be, which I haven't, I have only asked her to be my bridesmaid and to be honest I've always just tried to avoid the conversation which I know will not have helped matters.
I've decided I want my sister of MOH and have already asked her. So I don't know how to let my cousin down gently.... I was thinking about completely scrapping the MOH role as it's not super important to me but I don't want to take that away from my sister. Any advise would be great
