So I am struggling to find any thread/forum with this problem so thought I would share here.
I am debating having a veil for my wedding and have found a new type (cape veil) which i like more than the combs. A big thing for me was the way it felt in my hair. Having a cape veil sorts that out.
I like it but my mother does not. She doesn’t like veils anyway and is trying hard to enforce me not having one. She doesnt give a reason why but she doesnt like them and thats the end. I told her about the veil i found and was excited and put the dress on to show her how it works.
She said it was disgusting. She said it covers the dress and she despises it. She has told me in not so many choice words it ruins my look for the day. How do i get around this situation? I have tried to remind her that it is my day and its how i want to look but continues to feel like her opinion is the only one that matters. Really struggling to navigate this and dont want to keep falling out with her before the wedding.