My sister is due to get married next year and we have recently received our save the date. My OH messaged her to indicate we, along with our two children would be in attendance but was advised at that stage children are not invited.
I say children are not invited but she has 2 children of her own, one 6 years old and one is 12. Mine are 4 and 10.
There are no other children in the immediate family and excluding her niece and nephew despite her own children being in attendance does not sit right with me.
Am I wrong if I don’t attend as I feel my children have been disrespected?