To have parents or not?

Only thing I can say to this, is that it's YOUR wedding day. Do the necessary to make your day a special one; nothing else matters.

#YOUDOYOU

Best,

A.

We’re in a similar position with my other half. There was a huge argument before Christmas with his mother etc
We’re sorting our guest list and he has said he will not invite her as she hasn’t spoken to us since or even apologised. He said she doesn’t deserve to be there as he knows she’ll just make it about her.
His brothers are still coming as they’ve said “they are not getting involved”.
It’s a very difficult decision but I think you need to go with your gut feeling. If you think now “I don’t want them there” then maybe that’s the right decision. What does your OH think?

Mine aren't invited x♥️

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Thank you for all your help and for discussing this with me. We have invited them but think that they will not come in the end. X

View quoted message All that matters is you are both happy with the decision you have both made like you my parents were never fused on my h2b from the start of our relationship so we both decided after 20 years to elope and not tell anyone my friends and his friends were okay so when the time came for a catch up with my friends they spotted my dress were annoyed I didn't see the problem as they were always aware of our plans they told my family now I don't speak to any of them all I can say is have a day that you both want and please don't let them ruin your future x♥️

Good evening.

Ahhh sorry to hear this. I’m in a similar boat and it’s quite refreshing to know we’re not alone (sorry! I wouldn’t wish the drama on anybody!).

I hope since you posted this in March that something has been worked out between you all.

If not, then you need to go with your heart. Sometimes you have to cut loose, even if they are your parents. Toxic relationships are so physically, mentally and emotionally draining and you need all the love and support around you. The last thing you want is to be left crying on your wedding day.

Drop me an inbox if you need 💞