Evening so I’m getting married in 14 days, and I haven’t spoken to this friend for a month,
I’ve known this friend for 35 years we been to the same schools, collage, we had the same friends,
Ive been with my partner for 23 years, and we discussed with a wedding on Christmas Day last year,
We have been planning the wedding from January
I’ve been keeping this friend in the chat with all the wedding searching and feedback over the months, as she asked me too, but I’ve noticed that she isn’t as interested or excited as some of my other friends are,
I shown her photos of my rings in February wanted her feedback as I was in love with two rings, I had no answer from her for 4 days, by then I had made my mind up on rings, she bit my head off coz I was talking about rings, and not talking about her dog that died 6 weeks before,
I started to show her my shoes, dress, and accessories that I’ve picked and I got no answer, when my bouquet came in March she never told me she liked it, she skipped the question 3 times on watsapp
, I wanted to talk to her about those things as there important to me, but she only told me her thoughts on them a month later, I bought my shoes and dress in Febuary, and she waited into April to tell me how lovely my shoes are, but nothing on the bouquet until Easter,
I had my make up trial the end of April, I sent pics to everyone
that friend gave me a list of all the things she hated with the make up, it was a shopping list, she said you only sent me pictures of your face coz you wanted the feedback, no I sent you pics to show you what I’m wearing on that day, I had my hair trial 3 weeks ago she never saw those pics,
Ive had enough and told her how negative she is and she got negative energy around her and I don’t need it right now, and that she don’t seem very excited or interested in the wedding, if I talk to her about anything to do with the wedding she will ignore my messages, I have to wait for her to ask me questions about my wedding, for me to talk about it, if I don’t she will stop the chat mid way, and I won’t hear from her for 4-5 days, my dad said she is jealous,
I haven’t spoken to her for a month and 1 week, Can this friendship survive? Or do I walk away ?
Thanks Sara x