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Savvy November 2024 West Midlands

Trying to find a black wedding dress

Katey_84, 27 January, 2023 at 18:34 Posted on Wedding Attire 0 22

Hi all,

I have been married before so obviously this will be second time around for me!

This time round I want the total opposite to how my first wedding day was and my fiancé echoes this as well! He's been married before too!

I really want a black wedding dress but options are really slim in comparison and there is no way I'm spending 3k on a dress that will probably end up in a charity shop or in a box in loft (just quoting from my own past experience). Is anyone else having the same issue with trying to find a black wedding dress that won't cost the earth?

Thanks,

Kat

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Latest activity by Lexie, 15 December, 2025 at 09:16
  • Anna
    Curious June 2024 Surrey
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    Any dress can be a wedding dress if you say it is one! Instead of hunting specifically for black wedding dresses, have you tried looking at black prom dresses & seeing if any of those look like something you'd want to get married in?

    ETA: as illustration, here are a few "prom dresses" that I'm absolutely certain would be advertised as bridal if they were white instead of black.

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  • Laura
    Dedicated July 2023 Cambridgeshire
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    I have seen some cool white/ivory dresses with black patterns on, if you're open to iy
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  • A
    Dedicated October 2023 Surrey
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    I definitely second Anna's suggestion of looking for prom dresses (maybe also evening gowns on department store websites). Also have a look at Rock n Roll Bride Magazine and Website - they advertise a lot of alternative dress sellers!

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  • K
    Savvy November 2024 West Midlands
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    Thanks all, already exhausted those searches. I have in my head what I want my dress to be - I have until mid 2024 - hopefully something will caught my eye!

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  • Danielle
    Curious March 2023 East Sussex
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    I really wanted a black dress also I went for a black vintage 1950s dress from British retro with a black petticoat.
    I'm 5ft3 so wanted a tea length dress. Plenty of places have black dresses or you could buy a dress of your dreams and dye it black.
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  • K
    Savvy November 2024 West Midlands
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    Thank you, I have something in my head which I know I will be able to buy somewhere. I want a black lace mermaid dress. Your dress sounds lovely! Yup clothing dye is always an option!
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  • L
    Rockstar July 2023 Greater Manchester
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    The wedding gown designer that I’m using does some black dresses: Maggie Sottero.


    She has a beautiful mermaid one called Zander Lanehttps://www.maggiesottero.com/sottero-and-midgley/zander-lane/18429

    I don’t know how much it costs though. If cost is a bigger concern the evening gown route might be better. Have you looked at EverPretty?
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    Savvy November 2024 West Midlands
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    Thank you Lisa will have a nose at Maggie Sottero. Couldn't find anything on EverPretty - I'm probably being impatient

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  • K
    Beginner September 2023 East Riding of Yorkshire
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    I've seen a lot of black dresses from Cocomelody.
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    Savvy November 2024 West Midlands
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    Thank you, not heard of them. Will take a look!
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  • J
    Beginner March 2018 Co Londonderry
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    Thankyou for this .

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    Savvy November 2024 West Midlands
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    I have my dress... I love it! But it's similar to this, I don't want to give to much away Smiley tongueTrying to find a black wedding dress 4

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  • Michelle
    VIP July 2026 Cheshire
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    Have you tried shein ♥️
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  • Clare
    Beginner March 2024 Derbyshire
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    I have a beautiful black wedding dress for my wedding next year from David’s Bridal. They have a few UK stores where you can try it on and it’s not £3k 😅Trying to find a black wedding dress 5

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    Savvy November 2024 West Midlands
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    Yes - I now have my dress off there and my own mother is happy with the style too (bonus as we don't usually see eye to eye) Smiley smile

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  • K
    Savvy November 2024 West Midlands
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    That's lush - is this your dress?

    I have managed to find my dress and it's currently hidden in the house from my FH2B

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  • Clare
    Beginner March 2024 Derbyshire
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    Yeah it is! It was love at first sight, I didn’t go in looking for a black dress either. 😅 I’ve got it hidden at home too, apparently I was the first person in the UK to buy this dress in black. It also comes in ivory
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  • Michelle
    VIP July 2026 Cheshire
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    So glad you found one where from x♥️
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  • K
    Savvy November 2024 West Midlands
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    It's a stunning dress!
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    Thank you, Shein of all places x
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  • Michelle
    VIP July 2026 Cheshire
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    Perfect they have some really nice ones so happy for you enjoy the rest of planning ♥️


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  • Lexie
    Rockstar December 2025 Jiangsu
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    I totally get it! A second wedding is the perfect chance to do exactly what you want, and a black wedding dress is so bold and cool—no need to stick to traditional white at all. I’ve heard so many brides say it’s tough to find affordable black gowns, but Azazie has a great little selection of them. You can pick from sleek satin styles, lacy designs or ones with subtle details, all without breaking the bank. No point splurging on something that’ll end up in storage—go for something you love that fits your budget.

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