Hi!
I’m getting married in June 2023. It’s a destination wedding with very few guests.
To cut straight to the point: I absolutely dislike the idea of my dad walking me down the aisle. For me it feels really conservative and ridiculous; that somebody (worse: my parents) “give me away”. I’ m 25, have always taken care of myself and I’m not that close to my parents emotionally. So it seems clear what I want right? But my dad got very sick for a few years (cancer) and after a long hard battle he survived. And when I mentioned to my sister last week that I will be walking down the aisle by myself, it made her tear up and ask me why I wouldn’t include my dad, as he would be so proud to do it, especially after everything.So.. now I’m kind of in doubt. I still really dislike the idea. Is it selfish of me if I do it the way I prefer it?
Thank you!
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