Wedding Dress Hesitation

I'm not sure about being able to add fabric unfortunately but I just wanted to say I love the cape veil! I think it really suits the style of dress and you look lovely

It's a lovely dress - don't forget that in these photos, it isn't fitted properly, you're standing against a very busy background and the bottom of the skirt and train are all crumpled up. These photos bear very little relation to how you will look on your wedding day, when the dress is properly fitted and pressed, and you are standing against a beautiful backdrop!

You have no need to worry about your arms - they look fine - but the cape veil looks amazing on you and really suits the style of the dress too, so if you feel happier with that style, then stick with it because it looks good on you.

I'm going dress shopping in October and don't get married until April 2024 so i'm scared this is going to happen to me but just try and think of all the reasons you fell in love with the dress in the first place! xx

I think you look lovely and would echo the other ladies! I got engaged in May 21 and Wedding in Sep 23...that's a lot of time to look! I searched a lot on Stillwhite for 2nd hand one (many were samples or never worn due to covid reschedules) so WORST case scenario you could sell or buy on there, but genuinely think the dress looks lovely. I am also self conscious of my arms and shoulders convinced I would get thick straps and some kind of balloon sleeve.....and have ended up with bare arm halterneck! My mind set (with help from my sister) is give yourself some love. You may have looked at this picture a lot and thought of the imperfections that only you will see, when in fact everyone will be blown away with how amazing you look so give yourself a break! Oh and ration how often you look at photos....instead try to think about things that get you excited as it will be an amazing day xxx