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kharding2014
1st dress fitting tomorrow and I'm petrified
kharding2014, 22 August, 2014 at 13:10

So after putting it off I have my first dress fitting tomorrow & I'm petrified! What if it doesn't fit me or if I don't like it. I ordered it 14 months ago and only briefly tried it on when it...

*RMD*, saturday 23-Aug-14 11 1,435
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Brentwood Registry Office Help
RomanticBrownFlowers155, 22 August, 2014 at 21:33

Hi all, Wondering if anybody could help me at all. My oh and I are looking to get married at Brentwood Registry Office but have not been able to get a straight answer from them with regards to...

Peter, saturday 23-Aug-14 4 2,727
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Honeymoon in Cornwall in November, any recommendations?
rach_S_, 21 August, 2014 at 07:29

Morning everyone! We've done a big U- turn and decided to go to Gran Caneria for one week and one week in Cornwall- we love it there! We've been many times and tend to go back to the places we love,...

Peter, saturday 23-Aug-14 7 1,401
SunnyOrangeFlowers21
Venue gratuity
SunnyOrangeFlowers21, 22 August, 2014 at 20:49

My mum is wondering how much she should send as a gratuity for the venue staff who were there on the day. Did anyone else do this and how much did you send?

PinkButterfly, saturday 23-Aug-14 8 1,336 1
MrsB88
Gracie Day Flowers, harlow.
MrsB88, 22 August, 2014 at 16:00

Just booking an initial meeting with this florist. Bit worried as i know nothing about flowers!! Has anyone got any tips/advice?? Also has anyone used Gracie Day before??

MrsB88, friday 22-Aug-14 627
Barnett2015
Trimmign down the catering budget
Barnett2015, 19 August, 2014 at 17:01

Like many, I am on a strict budget. Our catering is coming in at more than anticipated. We are tied to use 1 of 6 suppliers and the company we are using are the cheapest/most suitable for us. And i...

weddingvirgin, friday 22-Aug-14 14 2,889
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Abbeydress.com - please do not use. you will lose your money
Carlylouisecrockford, 21 August, 2014 at 15:10

All, So the same doesn't happen to you please do not use Abbeydress,com. I order Wine red shoes to wear on my wedding day as my bridesmaids are in red. I now have shocking Pink shoes and they will not...

Carlylouisecrockford, friday 22-Aug-14 4 1,269
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Bridesmaid question: Should hubby have a say?
cjweds, 19 August, 2014 at 14:42

My h2b has asked me to have his sister and her daughter in the bridal party. His sister is 28 and her daughter is 4. We get on well but I've already asked my 2 sisters and that was all I was going to...

Sazzle24, friday 22-Aug-14 19 4,312
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Ebay foam roses
Gismo, 19 August, 2014 at 12:59

Can anyone recommend a good seller on ebay so I can get some sample foam roses. Thanks x

3d jewellery, thursday 21-Aug-14 9 1,703
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Struggling With Venue (Glasgow)
BlushingBride2B2016, 19 August, 2014 at 16:59

Hi my fiance and I got engaged september 2013 and are hoping to get married end of summer 2016. I was just wondering if anyone had suggestions on venues in and around glasgow. We have visited The Vu...

Paulalouise, wednesday 20-Aug-14 3 1,290
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Planning a wedding in France - trusted company's
Ellisssxx, 20 August, 2014 at 19:19

Hi, I am looking at getting married in France.. Looking for some advice ... Has anyone worked with any trusted company's that you'd recommend? Countryweddingfrance.com have been really helpful but not...

Bruce Neville Photog, wednesday 20-Aug-14 4 1,245
fayef
Preserved rose petals - flammable?
fayef, 20 August, 2014 at 22:08

Just a quick question. I've bought some PRESERVED rose petals (different from freeze dried) from http://www.rosepetalshop.co.uk/preservedrosepetals/99-dark-red/packages I was just wondering if they...

Paula @ Ollievision, wednesday 20-Aug-14 1 1,391
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Wedding Favours
BridgetJonesNoLonger, 20 August, 2014 at 03:58

Is it essential to have favours? My hesitation is that it's easy to spend a load of money and end up with a cheap looking favour. I don't really want to spend more than £1 per favour. We have 78...

Helenosaurus, wednesday 20-Aug-14 11 1,302
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Looking for a great fish & chip van for Yorkshire wedding
RomanticPurpleCars76, 18 August, 2014 at 13:35

Hi All I'm getting married in July next year in North Yorkshire. We're hoping to hire a fish and chip van for our evening food, for something that little bit different! I've had a few quotes in but I...

Erin8, wednesday 20-Aug-14 5 1,226
beccak
*How* to throw confetti?
beccak, 17 August, 2014 at 21:39

OK so this isn't about when to throw the confetti - we will be doing an organised confetti shot after a few formal photos after the ceremony, but more how is it best thrown? Do people tip it out of...

beccak, tuesday 19-Aug-14 10 2,727
smccallum
MUA and Hair cost
smccallum, 18 August, 2014 at 20:03

Hi fellow brides! I'm looking into MUA and hair prices. Can anyone give me an insight into what they are paying for MUA and hair for bride and for bridesmaids? Thanks.

Stephie, tuesday 19-Aug-14 11 2,194
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12pm ceremony?
loves-young-dream, 18 August, 2014 at 13:46

We have a 12pm ceremony, OH needs to set up the room from 8 am it's going to be such a rush!! Anyone else have this problem? and what are your timings for the day as I'm worried people will get...

Sarah_88, tuesday 19-Aug-14 8 1,967
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Not sure where to buy bridesmaid dress for young teen...
Cwtchandahalf, 17 August, 2014 at 20:30

Only have one bridesmaid, who'll be almost 12 on our wedding, so will be too big for flower girl/young bridesmaid dresses but too small for adult sizes and I've got no idea where to start looking for...

pattio86, tuesday 19-Aug-14 6 4,808
waddle_thepenguin
To fake tan or not to fake tan...
waddle_thepenguin, 4 March, 2010 at 22:30

Something else occurred to me along the beauty route. I tend to wear a lot of strappy tops in the summertime (when we actually get sunshine) and I've always been left with slight tan lines on my...

smccallum, monday 18-Aug-14 20 9,228
InWineTheresTruth
previously married and not reverted back to maiden name ....
InWineTheresTruth, 17 August, 2014 at 18:17

... so what name is used in the ceremony? We got our registrars ceremony pack today and it asks for your full name ...I am still known as my married name and all my ID is still in that name ... I have...

Mrslizziew2be, monday 18-Aug-14 16 2,835
Cupcake26
Slightly disappointed my BMs haven't offered to organise my hen for me
Cupcake26, 17 August, 2014 at 19:12

I'm usually a bit of a control freak so surprised I feel like this but was looking forward to them offering to do it! I don't feel like I can ask them to take over now as if they wanted to they would...

Cupcake26, monday 18-Aug-14 10 1,501
laurafish
Question for OMs who had bubbles instead of confetti
laurafish, 17 August, 2014 at 21:14

If any of you had bubbles in place of confetti, I was wondering about the liquid leaving marks on my dress when the bubbles pop. Did any of you have this problem? Are there any tips or certain types...

laurafish, monday 18-Aug-14 5 1,348
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Barn dance & DJ combo?
CityGirl37, 18 August, 2014 at 00:42

Hi All, I'm new to this forum and was hoping to get some help with evening reception music. We wanted to have some kind of ceilidh/barn dance thing going on to make sure everyone gets up and dances...

Wedding Photography, monday 18-Aug-14 2 882
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Suit hire - recommendations (burtons/greenwoods or debenhams)
2016bride88, 18 August, 2014 at 08:30

Hi we're looking at booking suits best month and originally planned on going to greenwoods but my cousin used them for her wedding in June and a few things weren't right with suits etc. I don't think...

katie80uk, monday 18-Aug-14 852
AKWedding
Family/Friend Ratio, Guests of the Bride/Guests of the Groom Ratio
AKWedding, 24 July, 2014 at 19:21

Hi, Out of curiosity, I was wondering what your ratio split for family and friends at your wedding is going to be? I have a large family so for my allocation, it is going to be 50% My Family, 50% My...

snow bride, monday 18-Aug-14 21 4,439
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Evening wedding invitation wording
Lucieloulou, 17 August, 2014 at 21:15

Hi, I am looking for some ideas for the wording of our invites. We are going to Lapland to get married and having an evening reception when we get home I am unsure how to word this any ideas would be...

soraneko, sunday 17-Aug-14 714
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Time of Wedding Ceremony
shelleyw21, 15 August, 2014 at 10:59

Hi, what time are people getting married? We've gone for 3pm register office, 5pm meal, 7.30pm evening bash. The late timing is mainly due to having relatives travelling down from up north but I am...

Bridally, sunday 17-Aug-14 14 7,004
emabee
Reserved seat for those no longer with us?
emabee, 5 August, 2014 at 15:55

So I lost my dear Mum nearly 14 years ago and I would like a nice way of remembering her on the day. I have a photo of her from her wedding day tied to my bouquet but I thought it would also be a nice...

InWineTheresTruth, saturday 16-Aug-14 19 6,809
Bean2304
Anyone else not having a first dance?
Bean2304, 14 August, 2014 at 11:02

Hi, we're only having a small wedding of 20 people max. We don't want to have a first dance it's just not us and we really don't want the whole traditional wedding thing. Problem is my mum keeps...

BigRedCandle, saturday 16-Aug-14 4 1,291
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Last birthday tommorow as a Miss :)
MrsBurton2015, 15 August, 2014 at 20:25

Will be a Mrs for my 25th birthday next year yay xx

MrsBurton2015, saturday 16-Aug-14 5 1,649
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Table plan *flash*
Surfer Rosa, 13 August, 2014 at 18:07

We are having a bit of a music theme at our wedding. The invitations were on record sleeves with a vinyl single appropriate for each guest. Our table names are our favourite albums and this is our...

Sarah_88, saturday 16-Aug-14 5 1,276
Miss-b
Pick a seat, not a side.. Thoughts?
Miss-b, 13 August, 2014 at 14:51

What is everyones opinion on the 'Pick a seat not a side' sign at a wedding ceremony? It'll be a civil ceremony, not a church. I like the idea as 99% of our families won't of met until at the wedding,...

Smithette2b, saturday 16-Aug-14 19 3,458

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