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Upfront Payments?
, 12 September, 2012 at 16:14

Hi, We have managed to waggle a slight discount for upfront payment of our cars (£700) and our photographer (£775). Has anyone else paid things upfront? Thanks

Peter, wednesday 12-Sep-12 14 3,725
samjh87
Bridesmaid dress- sage green or soft lilac Help!
samjh87, 12 September, 2012 at 11:37

Hi, My sister is my only bridesmaid (also having a flowergirl). We have a dress which is sage green, strapless and knee length. After talking to her last night she has decided that she would probably...

gonnaBMrsF, wednesday 12-Sep-12 6 2,272
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Mother Of Groom - Wedding Transport
, 10 September, 2012 at 09:32

Hi, Is it traditional for mother of bride to travel with mother of groom to wedding? Or not? Thanks

bluemoongirly, wednesday 12-Sep-12 14 3,273
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Hen do night with girl thing uk
gemwoi, 11 September, 2012 at 20:17

Has anybody booked a hen do through the company girl thing uk? I've been quoted a really great price for what I want but sounds too good to be true! Just wondering if anybody else had booked with them...

xlovebirdsx, wednesday 12-Sep-12 2,188
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Halloween Wedding
Nutty18, 9 September, 2012 at 00:53

Hi everyone This is my first post so please bear with me. We have booked our wedding for 31 October 2014 and I'm looking for some good ideas we can use on our wedding day. I don't want it to be tacky,...

Nutty18, wednesday 12-Sep-12 16 6,104
LauraC2B*2013
How long does it take to give notice?
LauraC2B*2013, 11 September, 2012 at 21:07

Does anyone know how long it takes to give notice once you are there? Ie if appointment is at 9 what time would we be done? Giving notice in Kent if that makes any difference Thanks x

kharv, tuesday 11-Sep-12 4 856
Zoomo13
ot unusual wedding cakes
Zoomo13, 11 September, 2012 at 10:44

Just for fun to get me through a long day at work, have you seen any weird or wonderfully unusual wedding cakes on your travels

kimyang1, tuesday 11-Sep-12 18 7,759
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Bridesmaid Dress Problems
, 8 September, 2012 at 12:51

I want really light pink dresses - they are very hard to find! For this reason I feel I need to be looking into / ordering them ASAP (weddings early August 2013). But I'm seriously worried - I have 5...

hazyclaire, monday 10-Sep-12 14 1,667
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Do we need a table plan for an evening buffet?
kingfisher1923, 7 September, 2012 at 13:54

Hi there, I’d be grateful for some views or advice on the above. We’re having light refreshments (cake reception) after the ceremony at the church for everyone who has come along, and then the...

kingfisher1923, monday 10-Sep-12 6 1,705
Earthy
My Wedding Report 11/08/12 *Flashes*
Earthy, 9 September, 2012 at 00:14

Hello, Finally got the professional pictures back so thought I would do a report. Sorry if the pictures are big: The Weekend Before (4/08/12) I’d decided to have the hen do the week before the wedding...

Kjay, monday 10-Sep-12 20 4,959
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Cream Jugs - Where can I find these?
, 8 September, 2012 at 10:48

Hi, Does anyone know where I can find cheap cream jugs for my table flower arrangements? Ideally want to try and find some like this for £5! Thanks

Zoomo13, monday 10-Sep-12 10 5,216
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Page Boy Role
, 10 September, 2012 at 10:11

What is the role of a page boy? I thought they would be with groom etc, but someone else has said they are meant to be with bridesmaids etc? Do they walk down the aisle with BMs?! Thanks

Ali_G, monday 10-Sep-12 6 7,887
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Is a 4:30pm start too late?
, 8 September, 2012 at 18:46

Firstly, apologies if this has been asked before. I've tried searching older threads but computer says no! Anyway, to cut a long story short. We are hoping to get married next year and we've found a...

HLT, monday 10-Sep-12 38 3,272
katiechops
Alternative to flower girl throwing petals? What are you doing?
katiechops, 9 September, 2012 at 18:38

Hi ladies, I hadnt thought about what our flowergirl will be doing until my FMIL was telling her she will walk infront of me throwing petals. Ive quite like the cute little flags that say 'here comes...

leni-lw!, sunday 9-Sep-12 9 1,103
leni
How do you prefer your cake samples at wedding fairs? Market research
leni, 6 September, 2012 at 18:49

I run a cake business and have done many many wedding fairs. I used to give out samples on a plate but then started wrapping in cling film and bagging up with a business card and giving out as I spoke...

vintagedreams, saturday 8-Sep-12 15 5,535
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OM's - did your evening guests arrive earlier than the time you stated?
Chedi, 5 September, 2012 at 15:09

I'm just wondering if we should expect them to arrive early, or if they were generally on time/after the time you stated?

Chedi, saturday 8-Sep-12 12 1,532
WickyWack
West Bridgford, Nottingham Venus ideas - halls, function rooms etc
WickyWack, 3 September, 2012 at 09:24

As the title suggests, we've had a change of heart due to family sticking their two pence worth in and have decided to please ourselves rather than our family who didn't seem to appreciate the...

WickyWack, friday 7-Sep-12 1 3,697
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Help on Calming Nerves?
amanda66, 5 September, 2012 at 12:27

Hi Ladies, 10 days to go today and the wedding nerves are slowly creeping in for myself and OH. Anyone got any tips on how to relax and enjoy the final stages before the wedding. Also, any OM's got...

natalieexx, friday 7-Sep-12 12 1,252
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Self Catering Wedding North West
MrsKLG2be, 5 September, 2012 at 13:50

Im looking for a self catering wedding venue or at least a venue that lets you provide your own alcohol We have 106 guests in the day and 150 at night Has anyone any ideas? Thanks

NorthernMonkey, friday 7-Sep-12 3 3,493
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Stag Night Worries - Help!
hp1986, 6 September, 2012 at 10:08

This is my first post in here... Let's start by telling you the full story... I have had 2 hen nights and am no prude when it comes to these sorts of things. I had a stripper, in a pub, for about 10...

MrsMeldrew, friday 7-Sep-12 84 8,347 1
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Queensberry Albums
, 5 September, 2012 at 21:26

Hi Does anybody know roughly how much the Qeensberry albums cost, and how difficult it would be to put together an album from a disc of wedding photos? I'm just wondering if it would be more cost...

bec84, friday 7-Sep-12 13 15,742
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12 MONTH WEDDING COUNTDOWN!!!!
inspiredbrides, 27 April, 2012 at 21:55

I have recently got engaged and not sure where to begin, I'm getting married in 14 months and decided against a planner. When did everyone decide on a theme by? Do i need to book a florist now? and...

Taylor Made Weddings, friday 7-Sep-12 2 894
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Grooms surprise present ideas please...
Jadeplus2, 31 August, 2012 at 18:13

Hello So my h2b is staying in a hotel the night before the wedding and I wanted to surprise him with something on the morning of the wedding by getting the hotel staff to take him a present or do...

Lofty86, thursday 6-Sep-12 24 7,106
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What time does your evening do finish?
Callalily, 5 September, 2012 at 20:16

Hey, I am still trying to choose a venue for my reception and one of them (prob my fave) has a rule that all music and drinking stops by midnight and everyone is sent home (or to bed if staying...

Vanilla Pod, thursday 6-Sep-12 19 2,882
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London hen night - suggestions needed!!
FutureMrsDubya, 6 September, 2012 at 12:59

Hi there, Can anyone offer any suggestions for my hen do in London? Was originally looking at doing a military / charlies angels activity in the afternoon (people kidknapp the bride-to-be and the...

Jessie_bride, thursday 6-Sep-12 4 1,415
Erin8
Realistic weight loss for wedding dress?
Erin8, 5 September, 2012 at 22:09

I have found a gorgeous dress that l like and is a great price. The only problem is it is too small for me by about 2-3 inches for all of the different measurement. Is it realistic to loss weight to...

Selenalee69, thursday 6-Sep-12 16 2,874
Seaweed
Mrs Scrase (Seaweed) wedding report- 7th July 2012- Athens, Greece
Seaweed, 1 August, 2012 at 16:55

HOW WE MET I met Andy 7 years ago in 2005, in Corfu. I was there with my grandparents, as every summer since I was born (my grandparents are from there) and Andy was there on holiday every summer with...

Seaweed, thursday 6-Sep-12 30 4,855
Tracey86
Sweetie Buffet Question
Tracey86, 5 September, 2012 at 07:08

We're having a DIY sweetie buffet at our wedding. We already have all the jars/vases and all the sweets and the plan is to fill the jars with the sweets and then cover them with cling film and attach...

Tracey86, wednesday 5-Sep-12 7 4,182
mollyjollymolly
Lonely Bride to be- How to get the girls involved?
mollyjollymolly, 29 August, 2012 at 12:27

Hi, I'm new here, and I'm looking for some shoulders of support! We're getting married in April, (my boyfriend proposed 6 months ago) I have been trying to organise everything and it is a nightmare....

Selenalee69, wednesday 5-Sep-12 34 4,737
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Kids table at wedding breakfast ...good idea or not??
MrsMtobee, 4 September, 2012 at 01:55

Hi This is my first post and could really do with some opinions. We have lots of children coming to our wedding (27 so far and have not had all RSVPs back yet) Most of our guests have young children...

LEN11212, wednesday 5-Sep-12 13 7,073
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Second thoughts on the dress
LC to be, 5 September, 2012 at 09:14

I'm having a mild panic about my dress at the moment. I'm not sure if made the right decision. I was in between two towards the end, two completely different styles Maggie Sotero Jovi Essence of...

~Lee~, wednesday 5-Sep-12 12 1,519
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anyone else feel like their wedding has been taken over by others?
marie84, 4 September, 2012 at 18:07

Me and my partner started thinking about what we wanted from our wedding and realised getting married abroad was more us than a traditional wedding. Trouble is he is an only child and my family tried...

Barefoot, wednesday 5-Sep-12 10 2,056

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