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Background music for wedding breakfast
Becky424, 11 August, 2012 at 09:30

Please help! We're getting married 2 weeks today and we can't think of music!! We really need to think of some background music for during the wedding breakfast....only thing is I can only think of...

jonesmel_25, saturday 11-Aug-12 4 15,079
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ARGH! Beautiful dress overload!
, 10 August, 2012 at 22:26

Why is it that when looking for bridesmaid dresses I get sidetracked by a ridiculous number of stunning wedding dresses? I'm sure I started this evening googling "pale green bridesmaid dress", but...

kharv, friday 10-Aug-12 1 575
Sam&Louise
Shoes from schuh *The Saga continues* ANOTHER used pair.
Sam&Louise, 7 August, 2012 at 16:07

I've never shoped at schuh before, but last week I saw some shoes online that I fell in love with and decided that I wanted for my wedding. I purchased 2 pairs in total (different styles,1 for...

sparkle52, friday 10-Aug-12 31 6,361
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Second Dance!
, 10 August, 2012 at 16:51

Traditionally who dances with who in this dance? Also - should it be a song thats special to the bride & groom still? It feels a bit odd dancing with someone else to a song thats special to me and...

Chris Giles Photogra, friday 10-Aug-12 3 580
mummymrs2b
What table decorations are you having? Q about candelabras?
mummymrs2b, 11 February, 2012 at 20:29

Just wondering what table decorations everyone is going for? The venue said we got use of the candelabras so was thinking of using these and getting some flowers for round the top or bottom, any with...

FaeBelle13, friday 10-Aug-12 15 6,995
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Fish & Chip Wedding...
, 9 August, 2012 at 11:40

Hi, Our first choice venue has fell through So now trying to find a second choice, we have found somewhere else which would be perfect but they are limited on the hot food they can serve. They are a...

Zoomo13, friday 10-Aug-12 8 5,657
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Are there any Bride-to-be's in The New Forest/ Southampton area??
Jelly_Tots, 7 August, 2012 at 17:19

Just wondering if you have any advice regarding, florists, cars, venues ect. Thanks ❤️

Jelly_Tots, thursday 9-Aug-12 7 983
*tinkerbell*
is it bad luck to show people your dress?
*tinkerbell*, 7 August, 2012 at 21:13

I know its bad luck for the groom to see your dress. But is it bad luck for other people to see your dress? Obviously i want it to have a wow effect when i walk down the aisle in it so wont be showing...

*tinkerbell*, thursday 9-Aug-12 17 15,578
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How Far in Advance did you Plan Your Hen?
Jessie_bride, 9 August, 2012 at 15:54

Hi, Looking for a bit of advice, another friend who is getting married in 2014 and having her hen do next summer has led to a few friends asking on the date of mine (I get married in August 2013) How...

Jessie_bride, thursday 9-Aug-12 12 1,645
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HELP REQUIRED - Small/Intimate lovely locations that wont break the bank in Essex / Hertfordshire area
viclou_84, 31 July, 2012 at 10:56

Hi all, Myself and my partner brought a house 3 months ago and are now planning our wedding for summer 2013, therefore we have a very strict/tight budget. I'm trying to find a venue that is small and...

viclou_84, thursday 9-Aug-12 16 12,194
SuperDuff
Vow renewal - Etiquette?
SuperDuff, 9 August, 2012 at 08:27

Hi all! I received an invite to a friend's vow renewal, to the evening only. In the invitation, it had all the usual details of a wedding invite, including a wedding list type thing (they want money...

rachel2012, thursday 9-Aug-12 14 2,795
missharwood
Show me your Save The Date ideas!
missharwood, 8 August, 2012 at 20:38

Hello! My fiance and I are going to send out Save the Date cards but I just want some ideas...I have a few but when I've put them into practice they don't look as nice as I thought! So show me yours...

pinkle86, thursday 9-Aug-12 17 4,065
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Chief Bridesmaid - When you have a sister?
, 8 August, 2012 at 16:00

Hi, If you have a sister, should they automatically be your chief bridesmaid? I would love her to be of course, but at the same time - I think my best friend would be able to organise a hen doo that...

Agouti, thursday 9-Aug-12 15 3,504
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flowers for hair... how???
hanrh, 9 August, 2012 at 09:29

Hi all, I have found this image of a hair style i just LOVE! Has anyone got any ideas on how or where i might source flowers that would be suitable for this sort of style? would the be real or...

Mrs C, thursday 9-Aug-12 3 4,407
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Hen's night costs
littleJ, 9 August, 2012 at 09:56

Hi there, My fellow bridesmaids and I are organising our friends hens night in london from over here in Austrlia. We have no idea what is an acceptable amount of money to expect people to pay for a...

pinkle86, thursday 9-Aug-12 6 1,171
Ali_G
Canapes at a village hall wedding?
Ali_G, 9 August, 2012 at 09:29

Do you think we should bother with canapes? I always associate canapes with posh hotels, not village halls. Do you think we need them? Or wedding is at 2 and we will be sitting down to eat at...

Caraboo, thursday 9-Aug-12 8 1,688
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make your own cupcakes
sparkle52, 5 August, 2012 at 21:53

Want to do the cupcakes myself, I may be crazy but cannot bring myself to pay £££££ for a cake. Anyone else doing this/done this? Let me know your tips! ie. can I freeze in week before and just...

waggamama, thursday 9-Aug-12 15 3,688
Little fluff
Anyone got their dress from yourbridalwear.com??
Little fluff, 25 January, 2010 at 09:57

Hi all, The question is in the title.... has anyone used yourbridalwear.com?? They have very good priced Maggie copies, just wondering if its worth the risk?? Thanks

LucyParkinson, wednesday 8-Aug-12 14 4,759
gee_gee
Do you get evening guests to sign Guest Book?
gee_gee, 7 August, 2012 at 18:14

When did you/are you planning to pass around your guest book? I've only been to 1 wedding where there has been a guest book and it was passed around during the meal. I was thinking of getting one of...

Spookle, wednesday 8-Aug-12 6 2,212
Fireflies
Anyone been to Maldives in July? ( a bit OT)
Fireflies, 7 August, 2012 at 11:06

As the title says really - I am looking at places for our honeymoon and have always wanted to go to the Maldives on Honeymoon but am worried about going in July (would probably be from 1st July for a...

AprilBride2B, wednesday 8-Aug-12 4 2,224
BadgerBeetle
Elderly relatives
BadgerBeetle, 7 August, 2012 at 22:44

As I mentioned before in another post, my Nanna is 86 and suffers with Dementia. She is, however, so excited about the wedding - she's even managing to remember the date which is amazing. I want to...

overtherainbow, wednesday 8-Aug-12 10 1,086
samjh87
Wedding Shoes Stress! **FLASH**
samjh87, 7 August, 2012 at 12:12

Hi Everyone! Well, wedding is October 27th.. this year. Planning isn't mine or my partners forte and have been toying with the mindset that everything will work itself out eventually! Having my first...

samjh87, wednesday 8-Aug-12 11 2,683
BadgerBeetle
Confetti
BadgerBeetle, 7 August, 2012 at 20:10

Hello! We want to give confetti out at the church - but only to the children we have attending, my Nanna (she has dementia but she is constantly asking us when we are getting married, she bursts into...

BadgerBeetle, tuesday 7-Aug-12 5 1,434
gee_gee
Cake Toppers - How much?
gee_gee, 7 August, 2012 at 09:21

If you have had a personalised cake topper made, roughly how much did it cost and where did you order from?

*gnashers*, tuesday 7-Aug-12 17 4,588
gee_gee
Pocketfold invitations...help please!!
gee_gee, 6 August, 2012 at 21:19

We (read I!) am really keen to make our own invitations. OH and I are both agreed that we would like pocketfold invitations, and I've ordered some card to make a mock-up. We've gone for bookfold so...

raindrop_eye, tuesday 7-Aug-12 8 5,214
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writing on a pebble
hanrh, 7 August, 2012 at 14:23

Hi all, I would like all of my guests to leave messages on a pebble much like the image below. Any ideas what sort of pen/paint could be used for this? Thank you Hannah xx

hanrh, tuesday 7-Aug-12 3 1,774
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Dinner the night before
chloe_chloe, 7 August, 2012 at 11:39

We're getting married in Italy and so have lots of friends and family flying over for the wedding. I want to arrange a meal the night before the wedding for those who are already there (probably about...

Agouti, tuesday 7-Aug-12 11 4,011
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Guest Tea Towel
hanrh, 7 August, 2012 at 13:40

Hi all, This is my first post on here so I am extemely excited to see the reponses i get! ? I am looking for an unusual idea for a wedding guesbook and have come across the idea of having a guest tea...

Sam&Louise, tuesday 7-Aug-12 3 3,699
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Personalised Wedding Glasses
fry12, 7 August, 2012 at 13:00

Hiiiiiiii Ok so i would quite like to get some personalised wedding glasses as gifts for our bridesmaids and ushers (and price dependant possibly the rest of the wedding party).... Id quite like these...

Mrs C, tuesday 7-Aug-12 2 751
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Altering bridesmaid dresses?
lumc86, 7 August, 2012 at 10:00

So, I found some bargain bridesmaid dresses on M&S online in the sale - reduced from £100 to £29!! So I bought a couple - and I must admit I do quite like them. Only issue is, they do not quite...

Nik_Nak, tuesday 7-Aug-12 3 2,100
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Music help please - Des'ree
Angel25, 7 August, 2012 at 09:36

Hi Everyone Looking for some help, I am singing at a friend's wedding on Friday and for the signing of the register she was meant to have a string quartet playing Des'ree's Kissing You. Anyway the...

Pompey, tuesday 7-Aug-12 1 648
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Table Plan wording help needed, please
LeicesterBride, 6 August, 2012 at 13:43

We've decided to allocate our guests a table, but not to use placecards. We think this adds to the relaxed/informal nature of the day. However, we're not sure if the absence of placecards will just...

*Pugsley*, monday 6-Aug-12 5 1,561

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